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Monday
Oct172011

To Stay or To Go?

You would not believe how many people get in touch with me to ask me if they should break up with their partners or not. Obviously, I can't answer that question for someone. However, I can speak about things that I have found over the years are signs that a relationship can be repaired, and the signs that make me think that a break-up is likely.

Top signs a relationship can be fixed:

+ Deep committment to the relationship

+ Each partner can stay calm enough to take in what the other person is saying.

+ Both people can take ownership of the things they have been doing that are problematic.

+ Both people are willing to make meaningful changes in response to what the other is saying.

 

Click the green link below to listen to the podcast. (18 min).

Should We Break Up?

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