Questions About Dating Coaching

How Does Dating Coaching Work?

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Questions About Dating Coaching: How Does Dating Coaching Work?

When you enlist the support of a private dating coach to help you find the love you're looking for, you also begin an amazing (and often eye-opening) journey of self-discovery. Then, once you and your coach have a good sense of what's been getting in the way of your dating success, we can help you design new strategies to get better results and ultimately, find the one.

Good Dating Coaching Starts With An Assessment

Unlike some manualized “cookie-cutter” approaches to dating coaching, ours is different. We have a holistic approach to dating coaching. Because all of our dating coaches [meet our team] have a background as therapists (with specialized training in couples and family therapy) we have a unique ability to help you understand your patterns in relationships, and the subconscious thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that may be unintentionally getting in the way of your results.

Sometimes we use personality assessments to help you “get under the hood” and gain insight into yourself. But often, your relationship self-discovery process happens through a series of interviews with your expert dating coach. They'll ask you questions about your relationship history, and the relational experiences that shaped you. You'll also be asked questions about who you are as a person, and what kinds of attitudes, thoughts, and approaches you use in situations in different aspects of your life.

Your Dating Coach Will Help You Design a Plan of Action

Once you and your dating coach have a good sense of your strengths and “growth opportunities” we'll take a look at what you're actually doing to meet people and attract a healthy new relationship into your life.

Again, our approach here is holistic: We're not just about online dating. We help you identify and expand on every strategy to connect with others, both in person, through your social networks, and through online dating platforms.

We'll discuss everything from how you first connect with people, to the messages you send to others (both intentionally, and unintentionally) through all forms of communication. Your dating coach can help you establish a positive personal brand, enhance your communication skills, distinguish promising new connections from potentially problematic ones, and move a new relationship forward with confidence and competence.

Additionally, we can help you with the nuts and bolts of modern dating, helping you with everything from copywriting a great online profile, to choosing the best photos, to setting up your online dating accounts on a variety of platforms. You might even consider taking advantage of our dating admin services to help you manage your profile maintenance, correspondence, and scheduling.

Experimentation and Refinement

Once you and your dating coach develop a clear plan of action, the work shifts to supporting you in following through with things and helping you refine your strategy as you learn more. You and your dating coach will evaluate the results of your actions, and decide what changes to make in your approach. You'll also have guidance and support if you do meet someone with potential, as you negotiate the often confusing first stages of early romantic love. We can help you build a healthy new relationship, and avoid many of the potential pitfalls that can derail a budding romance.

You Can Find The Love You're Looking For

The modern dating scene is challenging for everyone. And it is also true that people fall madly in love and launch a lifetime of love together all the time.You see the engagement posts, right? What is NOT obvious to the casual observer on social media is how people are actually creating their success.

Dating coaching is a billion-dollar industry… that few people who've benefitted from it talk about. What is not openly discussed (but is definitely privately happening) is that many people who have been successful in modern dating had the behind-the-scenes support of a great dating coach. You deserve the same advantage.

Get in touch, and set up your free consultation with one of our expert dating coaches today.

Answers to Your Dating Coaching Questions

How Does Dating Coaching Work?

Wondering how, exactly, a professional online dating coach can help you get different results? It starts with a journey of self-discovery, where you learn more about yourself and the previously unknown obstacles that have been getting in the way of your success. Armed with that knowledge, you can then work with your coach to try new, more effective strategies.

How Much Does a Dating Coach Cost?

If you're considering dating coaching, an understandable question is how much dating coaching costs. First, it's helpful to understand the true value that expert dating coaching can bring to your life. At Growing Self, expert dating coaching is also as affordable as it is meaningful and effective. Learn more about our rates for dating coaching (and whether you can use your insurance!)

Do I Really Need a Dating Coach?

Wondering why you should enlist the support of a personal dating coach, or keep working at things on your own? Here are a few thought provoking questions to help you determine if you could benefit from working with a professional dating coach, or if you're already heading in the right direction.

What to Expect in Your Free Dating Coaching Consultation

If you've never done any type of coaching before, you might be a little nervous about what to expect in your very first meeting. Learn more about what types of questions your dating coach will ask, and how your consultation meeting will unfold...

Meet Some Of Our Dating Coaches

Markie Keelan, M.A., LPCC, CSPC

Markie Keelan, M.A., LPCC, CSPC

Dynamic Life, Career & Dating Coach

Markie is a Master's level coach with a positive, compassionate attitude towards personal growth. She has years of experience in helping people create real and lasting change in their lives and performing at the highest level of their potential. Listen to Markie's great dating advice on the "New Rules For Dating" podcast with Dr. Helen Fisher.

Jessica Small, M.A., LMFT

Jessica Small, M.A., LMFT

Dating and Relationship Coach



Jessica is a dating coach, as well as a licensed marriage and family therapist, with many years of experience in helping people create happy, healthy, and authentic relationships. She has extensive experience in helping people create healthy relationships, and can help you get self-awareness, clarity, confidence, and empowerment to connect with your soul-mate.



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