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Repair Your Bond: Expert Marriage Counseling

Expert Denver Marriage Counseling: Real Help For Your Relationship

Turn Conflict Into Connection

Have you been feeling disconnected from your partner? Maybe you’ve been feeling hurt or frustrated, or like a new fight is always simmering just under the surface. Maybe you’re struggling to communicate, or feel like your trust and formerly secure connection has been damaged. If so, you’re not alone. All couples go through periods of disconnection.

These are “cross-road” moments for marriages: One path leads to a stronger, happier, and healthier relationship than ever before — and the other leads to increasing negativity, resentment and mistrust that can erode your connection.

Couples who avoid addressing problems, continue in negative, hurtful patterns, or wait too long to get help can destroy their trust in each other… and their commitment to the relationship.

Stop Fighting, and Start Understanding.

This is a huge opportunity to improve your relationship. Pain creates motivation to change. Smart couples who care about their marriages seize moments like these, and make the investment in professional support and guidance. This gets them on the “healthy path” towards deeper connection.

Good marriage counseling helps you learn about each other, solve problems, learn how to communicate and repair your faith in each other. Couples who walk through the fire together and come out the other side have a stronger, deeper connection than couples in untested relationships.

Believe it or not, you can look back on this “rough patch” as the best thing that ever happened in your marriage, if you seize this moment… and use it to grow together.

We Help Couples:

• Communicate With Each Other
• Stop Fighting, and Start Understanding
• Create Deeper Emotional Connection
• Repair Your Sexual Relationship
Restore Trust and Security After Infidelity
• Resolve Long-standing Differences
Parent as a Team
Create Agreement Around Responsibilities, Money, Kids and More
Bring Peace To a Blended Family
Cope With Infertility, Postpartum, and Becoming Parents
• Support and Accept Each Other
• Build a Strong, Healthy Family
• Love and Respect Each Other
• Build a Life of Shared Meaning and Purpose
• Enjoy Each Other Again

Our Evidence-Based Marriage Counseling is Positive, Productive and Effective.

POWERFUL

The marriage counselors of Growing Self have specialized education, training and experience in marriage counseling.

We know how to help you reconnect emotionally, restore trust, improve communication, solve problems together, and create deeper levels of intimacy.

POSITIVE

Marriage Counseling with us is a positive experience. Our highly trained, professional marriage counselors know how to set you both at ease, and feel heard, valued, and understood.

Even reluctant partners often leave their consultation feeling excited, hopeful, and committed to the process.

PRODUCTIVE

We help you have productive new experiences that grow your understanding of yourselves… and each other.

You’ll leave each session with new hope, new ideas, new agreements, and a plan of action to make the specific changes that will improve your relationship.

EFFECTIVE

We use the two, evidence based approaches to help our couples: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, which helps you understand each other and repair your attachment on a deep level, and The Gottman Method, which teaches you specific skills to communicate more effectively, and take positive action to repair your love.

You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been.

– Former Client

Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.

– Former Client

You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been. – Former Clients

We Are Relationship Experts

We have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.

Polly Drew

Polly Drew

M.Ed., LMFT

Polly is a marriage counselor has over 25 years of experience in helping couples "come back from the brink," heal their strong bond, and enter into a positive and satisfying new chapter of life together.

 

 

 

Brenda Fahn

Brenda Fahn

M.A., LMFT

Brenda Fahn specializes in helping couples create healthy, happy relationships. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, with a positive, direct style and over fifteen years of experience. She teaches our "Lifetime of Love" premarital / relationship class.

 

 

Ari Kipnis

Ari Kipnis

M.S.W., LCSW

Ari Kipnis has over ten years of experience in helping couples get back on the same page and rediscover their love for each other through positive, effective, solution-focused strategies.

 

 

Kristy Vergo

Kristy Vergo

M.A., NCC, LMFTC

Kristy Vergo is a kind, non-judgmental marriage counselor who specializes in helping couples repair their trust, restore their connection, grow together as individuals, and take their relationship to a new level of emotional intimacy.

 

 

Stephanie Manning

Stephanie Manning

M.A., LMFTC

Stephanie Manning has years of experience in helping couples communicate more effectively, find new solutions to old problems, repair their strong bond, rebuild trust after affairs, successfully blend families, and parent joyfully together.

 

 

 

 

Kathleen Stutts

Kathleen Stutts

M.Ed, NCC

Kathleen is a Marriage Counselor and Relationship Coach with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples understand each other compassionately, and start enjoying each other again.

 

 

 

Jessica Small

Jessica Small

M. A., LMFT

Jessica is a dynamic marriage and family therapist with over 8 years of experience in helping individuals, families & couples create more fulfilling lives and relationships, and to function at an optimum level of health and happiness.

 

Meagan Terry

Meagan Terry

M. A., LMFT

Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class.

 

Lindsey DiStefano

Lindsey DiStefano

M. A.

Lindsey DiStefano has a Master's Degree in Child, Family and School Psychology, and years of experience in helping children and families flourish. She is currently completing her Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology (Marriage and Family Therapy track) from the University of Colorado. As our 2017 - 2018 Counseling Intern, Lindsey is available to meet with you for marriage counseling, couples counseling, relationship coaching and family therapy at very affordable sliding scale rates. 

 

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Working With Us Is Easy.

We offer affordable sliding scale rates, evening and weekend appointments, can help you use your insurance, and have conveniently located offices in central Denver, Colorado (Cherry Creek), and Broomfield, Colorado just off I-36.

Help yourself to the best day and time using our online calendar below, or call the office at 720-370-1800 for personal assistance in scheduling. (We answer 24/7).

Meet In Person: Denver / Cherry Creek or Broomfield / Boulder

We offer free, in-person consultation sessions so you can make sure it's the right fit before deciding to move forward.

Busy Schedule? Outside Denver? No Problem.

We work with people all over the world via Skype, FaceTime, or Google Hangouts.

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