Expert Counseling & Life Coaching in Denver For Love, Happiness & Success

Growing Self

Life Coaching • Marriage Counseling • Therapy

For Love, Happiness & Success

Create a Lifetime of Love

Denver Premarital Counseling Classes
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Love Your Relationship

Expert Marriage Counseling • Relationship Coaching • Pre-Marital Counseling • Dating Coach
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Be Happy

Effective Therapy • Life Coaching • Personal Growth
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Design Your Life

Career Coaching • Life Coaching • Self-Discovery
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Expert Denver Marriage Counseling, Life Coaching and Therapy.

What Our Clients Say:

Marriage Counseling

Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.

Effective Therapy

If you had tried to convince me a year ago that I’d feel this happy and content now, I wouldn’t have believed it!

Life Coaching

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything.  You have made such a positive impact on my life and I am sincerely grateful.

Upcoming Events @ Growing Self

Create a Lifetime of Love

Denver’s Best Premarital & Relationship Class Starts Again on Monday March 30th!

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Love Your Relationship

We specialize in relationships, and helping you create a life full of love and connection. We use only effective, evidence-based marriage counseling and coaching strategies that are proven by research to help you get results.


Whether you’re looking for expert marriage counseling to repair your bond, direct relationship coaching to learn how to communicate and get back on the same page, premarital counseling and premarital classes to build a lifetime of love, or a dating coach to help you find “the one” — we can help.

Our Marriage Counseling & Relationship Services
You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other, our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been. Former Marriage Counseling Client

Be Happy

We can help you grow into your strong, confident and happy “best self” through powerful, positive and productive therapy. Our therapy is warm, non-judgmental, compassionate… and smart.

We help our clients with all kinds of issues, by teaching them the skills they need to be happy. Whether you want to conquer Depression or Anxiety, rebuild your life after a relationship ends, have better relationships, or simply grow into the resilient, confident, and joyful person you deserve to be… we’ll be the supportive partner that can guide your journey of personal transformation.

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Whether our encounters are on the phone, over email, in person, or via Skype, you created an environment where I feel comfortable, safe and valued. As a result, I learn to change the way I talk to myself and view the world, and gain the tools to “unstick” whenever I feel paralyzed. You helped me unearth happiness and contentment. It’s been a consistent driving force behind my personal discovery and growth. Former Therapy Client

Design Your Life

Powerful Love, Life and Career Coaching gets you unstuck from old patterns, and teaches you how to design your life. Our motivating coaches help you get real results, and create lasting change. Through specific, action-oriented coaching you’ll get the clarity, direction, motivation, concrete strategies, and accountability you need to create the life you want.

Our expert Love, Life and Career Coaches can help you discover yourself, overcome old obstacles, and get better outcomes in every area of your life. With us you’ll get the direct feedback and guidance you need to learn how to move forward, and create the Love, Happiness and Success you deserve.

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WEEKS after seeing Dr Bobby I achieved my goal of finding a career that suits me perfectly. I’m still in disbelief of how quickly it all happened. Former Career Coaching Client

Meet The Team

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LMFT, BCC

“Hi, I’m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching.  I established this practice on the belief that you deserve to have a life full of Love, Happiness and Success, and that having the right kind of help at the right time can help you create it.

Growing Self is a space devoted to your personal growth and wellbeing. Whether you are looking to have more love in your life, feel happier, or grow into the person you want to be, there is help for you here. Please make yourself at home. Read some articles, listen to some podcasts, and when the time is right I hope that you get in touch with myself or one of the effective therapists, expert marriage counselors, or transformational life coaches on my team.

We are all here for you. I’m glad you found us.”

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Jessica Small, M.A., NCC

“Hi, I’m Jessica. I am a marriage counselor, therapist and coach who is committed to and passionate about helping individuals, families and couples create more fulfilling relationships and function at an optimum level of health and happiness. Whether to improve relationships or cope with life changes, I utilize a systems perspective to understand the complexities and strengths of my clients.

I work with couples, adolescents, and individuals who need a smart, competent, and supportive guide on their journey of personal growth and positive change. While the majority of our work together will focus on the present, I also believe past experiences influence how people behave and respond in relationships. With empathy, humor and gentle encouragement we will work together to create healthy relationships that provide fulfillment and personal satisfaction.”

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Lindsay Melka, M.A., LPC, ICADC

“Hi, I’m Lindsay. I specialize in helping my clients get the self awareness they need to overcome old, self limiting patterns — plus specific direction on the changes they need to make to get better results. I am a warm, insightful, and compassionate person who can both support and challenge you (in just the right way) to help you grow.  I am a Therapist, Life Coach, and Dating Coach, so whether you’re looking to break unhealthy or addictive patterns, achieve your goals, improve your relationships, feel happier, find your true love or improve your self esteem I can help you. I work by helping you uncover your strengths, and identify the thoughts, emotions and behaviors that may be holding you back. Then we can change the ones that aren’t working.  In our partnership, you will find the new ideas and practices that allow you to become your joyful, peaceful, confident and successful ‘Best Self.'”
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Meagan Terry, M.A., NCC

“Hi, I’m Meagan. I specialize in helping my clients create amazing relationships. I practice highly effective marriage counseling and relationship coaching that will help you communicate with each other, stop fighting, start understanding, and create the agreements you need for your relationship to flourish.

As a relationship expert, I can help you every stage of your relationship development: I can be your dating coach when you’re looking to find “the one,” help you lay the foundation for a lifetime of happiness through pre-marital counseling, make a good relationship great through relationship coaching, or heal your bond through marriage counseling. I have particular expertise in helping couples negotiate sticky situations like deciding to have children, creating blended step-families, fertility (and infertility), and learning how to parent effectively together.

We can also work together individually. I can help you rebuild your life after a break up or divorce, improve your self esteem, resolve old issues from your family of origin, and change self limiting patterns in your relationships with your significant other, your friends, your family… and with yourself.”

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Stephanie Sindt Egan, M.A., NCC

“Hi, I’m Stephanie. I’m a Therapist with an action-oriented, direct style who specializes in helping you grow through Life Coaching, Career Coaching, and Dating Coaching, as well as therapy. I’m here to help you create real results, and lasting change. While I have training as a traditional therapist, I have the heart of a Coach — a cheerleader, supporter, trouble-shooter, and action-oriented motivator that will help you take the action you need to change your life.

I can help you understand yourself more deeply, get clarity about your goals, and then break your “amazing journey” into the small, attainable steps that will carry you forward into your ideal reality. Whether you’re looking to discover yourself, become a happier person, find the love of your life, create an amazing career, kick bad habits, loose weight, attain financial goals, overcome self-limiting patterns or simply achieve at a higher level – I’m here for you.”

Dr. Lisa’s Blog & Podcast

Overcoming Perfectionism

The pressure to be perfect infuses every aspect of our lives. Even understanding that perfection is impossible doesn’t change the feelings of shame when you fail to meet your own standards. But perfectionism CAN be overcome. Here’s how…

How to Get Organized

Learning how to get organized and stay that way is a foundational life skill: Your ability to keep your self together is the platform from which you build great things — occupationally, creatively, and relationally. Learn more…

Love Your Career

Is your job stressing you out? You’re not alone — it’s called “work” for a reason. Many people, even ones with satisfying careers, still have to deal with difficult and stressful situations. Handling your work relationships, dealing with...

Have More Wedding Dazzle, Less Wedding Frazzle

There are soooo many things to think about when you’re getting married, like the venue, food, music, the ceremony, and the dress — not to mention premarital counseling. My wedding gift to you? A chance to meet with Denver wedding experts to get some free advice, lower the frazzle, and put your relationship back in the center of your marriage.

More of Dr. Lisa's Articles & Podcasts

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100 Fillmore Street • Denver, CO 80206

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10955 Westmoor Drive • Westminster, CO 80021

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