Growing Self

Counseling & Life Coaching

• For Love, Happiness, & Success •

Love Your Relationship

Expert Marriage Counseling • Relationship Coaching • Pre-Marital Counseling • Dating Coaching

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Be Happy

Positive, Powerful & Effective Therapy

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Design Your Life

Career Coaching • Life Coaching • Dating Coaching

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Create a Lifetime of Love

Next Premarital Counseling Workshop: October 19th!

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Expert Denver Marriage Counseling, Life Coaching and Therapy.

What Our Clients Say:

Marriage Counseling

Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.

Effective Therapy

If you had tried to convince me a year ago that I’d feel this happy and content now, I wouldn’t have believed it!

Life Coaching

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything.  You have made such a positive impact on my life and I am sincerely grateful.

Welcome To Growing Self Counseling & Coaching

Upcoming Events + Classes

Create a Lifetime of Love

Ever wished there was a “Love Class” that could teach you how to have a spectacular relationship? This is it: Learn how to communicate, solve problems, and keep your love strong. Next “Lifetime of Love” class begins Monday October 19th!

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Let Love In

Looking for love? Learn how to be successful in modern dating with our four-week dating class: Let Love In. We’ll cover everything, from how to attract your ideal partner, to your online profile, to “wowing” your first dates. Next class starts October 26th!

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The Happiness Class

Start learning the life-changing skills we teach our private clients, right now.

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Love Your Relationship

Marriage Counseling • Relationship Coaching • Premarital Counseling • Relationship Classes • Dating Coaching


You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other, our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been.

– Former Marriage Counseling Client

Whether you’re looking for expert marriage counseling to repair your bond, direct relationship coaching to learn how to communicate and get back on the same page, premarital counseling to build a lifetime of love, or a dating coach to help you find “the one” — we can help.

Be Happy

Positive, Productive, + Effective Therapy


Whether our encounters are on the phone, over email, in person, or via Skype, you created an environment where I feel comfortable, safe and valued. As a result, I learn to change the way I talk to myself and view the world, and gain the tools to “unstick” whenever I feel paralyzed. You helped me unearth happiness and contentment. It’s been a consistent driving force behind my personal discovery and growth.

– Former Therapy Client

We can help you grow into your strong, confident and happy “best self” through powerful, positive and productive therapy.

Whether you want to have better relationships, heal a broken heart, move past self-limiting old patterns, conquer Depression or Anxiety, or simply grow into the resilient, confident, and joyful person you deserve to be… we’re here to support and guide you.

Design Your Life

Life Coaching • Career Coaching • Dating Coaching • Relationship Coaching


WEEKS after seeing Dr. Bobby I achieved my goal of finding a career that suits me perfectly. I’m still in disbelief of how quickly it all happened.

– Former Career Coaching Client

Create real results, and lasting change. Our expert Love, Life and Career Coaches can help you get better outcomes in every area of your life. We offer Career Coaching to help you live your dream, Dating Coaching to help you “find the one,” Relationship Coaching to transform a good relationship into a great one, and Life Coaching to help you design your life — and  create the Love, Happiness and Success you deserve.

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Working With Us Is Easy.

We offer sliding scale rates, evening and weekend appointments, can help you use your insurance, and have conveniently located offices in Denver (Cherry Creek), and Westminster / Broomfield just off I-36.

Help yourself to the best day and time using our online calendar below, or call the office at 720-370-1800 for personal assistance in scheduling. (We answer 24/7).

Busy Schedule? Outside Denver? No Problem.

We work with people all over the world via Skype, FaceTime, or Google Hangouts.

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Meet Our Team

Of Expert Marriage Counselors, Life Coaches, & Transformational Therapists

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, PhD, LMFT, BCC

Marriage Counselor, Life Coach, Dating Coach, Transformational Therapist

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, PhD, LMFT, BCC

"Hi, I'm Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, founder of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching.  I established this practice on the belief that our challenges are opportunities for growth. Challenges create fork-in-the-road moments for our marriages, our families, our careers, and our lives. What you choose to do with these opportunities are the keys to your destiny, and personal evolution. Getting the right kind of support and guidance can make all the difference, allowing you to seize the power of this "growth moment" and use it to create the love, happiness and success you want and deserve -- rather than continuing to suffer, or spin your wheels."

"Because your happiness, your relationships, and your growth is so precious, Growing Self is a space devoted to your wellbeing. There is help for you here. Please make yourself at home, and help yourself to what you need. Get direction and guidance by reading articles or listening to podcasts, educate yourself about the growth process, take an online training, or, if the time is right, reach out to myself or one of the competent, compassionate personal growth experts on my team. We are all here to support you and help you on your journey towards love, happiness and success. I'm glad you found us."

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Kathleen Carrol-Stutts, M.Ed., NCC

Transformational Therapist, Life Coach, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach

Kathleen Carroll-Stutts, M.Ed., NCC

"“Hi, I’m Kathleen. I am a Nationally Certified Counselor, Therapist, Life Coach and Dating Coach who is passionate about helping others build strong self-esteem and realize their best selves. Whether you need help getting back on your feet or just fine-tuning your life, I will provide a nonjudgmental, productive space for us to work together in creating lasting, positive change. Whether we're working together to help you feel happier, improve your relationships, or get better results, I'm here to support you in overcoming your self-limiting beliefs, and cultivating empowering new feelings and behaviors."

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Jessica Small, M.A., NCC

Marriage Counselor, Dating Coach, Premarital Counselor, Life Coach, Transformational Therapist

Jessica Small, M.A., NCC

“Hi, I’m Jessica. I'm a Marriage Counselor, Therapist, Life Coach and Dating Coach, as well as a Premarital Counselor. I'm passionate about helping individuals, families & couples create more fulfilling lives and relationships, and helping them function at an optimum level of health and happiness. I teach our "Let Love In" dating class, and find great joy in helping my clients create healthy relationships. Whether to improve relationships or cope with life changes, I utilize a systems perspective to help you understand your complexities and harness your strengths. I work with couples, adolescents, and individuals who need a smart, competent, and supportive guide on their journey of personal growth and positive change.”

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Dr. Kristi Helvig, PhD, LP, CPC

Career Coach, Life Coach, Dating Coach & Relationship Coach

Dr. Kristi Helvig, PhD, LP, CPC

“Hi, I’m Dr. Kristi Helvig. I’m a Clinical Psychologist and Certified Life Coach with over fifteen years of experience in helping my clients get real results and lasting change through strategic love, life and career coaching. I can help you set goals and achieve them, in every area of your life. As a Life Coach I can help you get clarity, direction, and the concrete skills and strategies that will move you forward. I can serve you as a Career Coach, helping you transform your career, or excel in your current profession. I'm a personal productivity coach who can help you achieve at your highest potential. If your goal is to  create a vibrant, joyful relationship I can work with you either as a Dating Coach or Relationship Coach, guiding you towards the connection, satisfaction, and the love you're looking for."

Denver Career Coach Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Stephanie Sindt Egan, M.A., NCC

Career Coach, Life Coach, Dating Coach, Therapist

Stephanie Sindt-Egan, M.A., NCC

"Hi, I’m Stephanie. I’m a Therapist with an action-oriented, direct style who specializes in helping you grow through Career Coaching, Life Coaching and Dating Coaching, as well as Transformational Therapy. I can help you understand yourself more deeply, get clarity about your goals, and then break your “amazing journey” into the small, attainable steps that will carry you forward into your ideal reality. Whether you’re looking to discover yourself, become a happier person, find the love of your life, create an amazing career, kick bad habits, loose weight, attain financial goals, overcome self-limiting patterns or simply achieve at a higher level – I’m here for you."

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Brenda Fahn, M.A., LMFT

Marriage Counselor, Relationship Coach, Dating Coach, Life Coach, Transformational Therapist

Brenda Fahn, M.A., LMFT

“Hi, I’m Brenda. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Counselor and Life Coach with over fifteen years of experience in helping my clients strengthen their marriages, their families, and themselves. I’m here to help you build happy, healthy relationships, enjoy your relationships with your partner and children, reclaim your happiness, and cultivate meaning, joy, and love in your life."

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Meagan Terry, M.A., LMFT

Marriage Counselor, Family Therapist, Premarital Counselor, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach

Meagan Terry, M.A., LMFT

"Hi, I’m Meagan. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and I specialize in relationships. I have over eight years of experience in helping couples and families become stronger, happier, and more loving with each other — and helping individuals create healthy connections. I’m an expert Marriage Counselor, Family Therapist, Relationship Coach, Dating Coach and Premarital Counselor. I teach our "Lifetime of Love" relationship class. I can help you communicate with each other, stop fighting, start understanding, and create the agreements you need for your relationship to flourish. I'm here to help you you create the kind of relationship you want and deserve through effective, direct strategies.”

Denver Addictions Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Lindsay Melka, M.A., LPC, ICADC

Transformational Therapist, Life Coach

Lindsay Melka, M.A., LPC, ICADC

“Hi, I’m Lindsay. I’m a Life Coach and Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping my clients overcome challenges, break free from unhelpful patterns, tap into their hidden potential, and become their best selves. I specialize in transformational therapy and coaching, and have a background in addictions counseling. I blend the power of strategic Life Coaching with the depth of great therapy to help you make changes on core levels. Whether you’re looking to break unhealthy or addictive patterns, improve your relationships, get a handle on your emotions, or improve your self esteem I can help you through powerful, insightful, and direct strategies.”

Denver Marriage Counselor Denver Life Coach Denver Therapist

Dr. Jodi Lovejoy, D.Bh., LCSW

Transformational Therapist, Career Coach, Marriage Counselor, Life Coach, Dating Coach

Dr. Jodi Lovejoy, D. Bh., LCSW

"“Hi, I’m Dr. Jodi Lovejoy. I have over twenty-five years of experience as a 'personal transformation expert,' and can help you create positive change in your relationships, your career, and your life. I have a strategic and direct approach to Marriage Counseling, Individual Therapy, Parent Coaching, Dating Coaching and Career Coaching that will help you make meaningful, lasting changes quickly. Whether you're hoping to pull your relationship back from the brink, cultivate peace and joy in your family, transform your career, or simply become a more confident, joyful person -- I can help you."

Dr. Lisa's Blog & Podcast

How To Recover From a Breakup

Learn why it’s so hard to get over your Ex, why most people feel like they are going crazy after their relationship ends, and simple things that you can do to help yourself recover from a breakup.

Denver Dating Coach: How To Create A Great Online Dating Profile

Modern dating means discriminating between possible possibilities and probably-nots — in the blink of an eye. Your first impression may be the only chance you get. Denver Dating Coach Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby shares her top tips for a great online profile.

Your Relationship Questions, Answered.

Advice From A Marriage Counselor: How important are “butterflies?” How do you bring up delicate subjects? What if you hate your partner’s friends? All these burning questions, and more, are answered, on the latest episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

When is Alcohol a Problem?

How can you tell if your drinking or pot smoking is a problem? It can be hard to know sometimes if your habits are “normal”… or if they’re getting out of hand. Learn how to check yourself, on this edition of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

Finding Forgiveness

Finding forgiveness can be an essential part of the personal transformation process. Holding on to anger — either towards yourself or someone else — will only hold you back, and create more problems for you. Listen now, and learn how to forgive… and set yourself free.

Blended Family Problems?

It’s not just you: Blended Families are difficult. Learn why, and what you can do to create peace, harmony and good will in your blended family.

More of Dr. Lisa's Articles & Podcasts

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