“We all have ways of feeling loved that are meaningful to us—for example, some people experience love and connection the most when they’re engaged in activities with their partner, while others don’t feel appreciated unless their partner is giving them praise,” explains Lisa Marie Bobby, PhD, LP, LMFT, BCC., dating coach, founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, author of Exaholics and host of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

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