Premarital Counseling
Build a Happy Life, Together
Invest in What Matters Most:
Your Marriage
A wedding can cost tens of thousands of dollars. But good premarital counseling with an expert marriage and family therapist is the most valuable investment you’ll ever make in your marriage. Learn about the benefits of premarital counseling at Growing Self.
Learn and Grow, Together
Satisfying, secure marriages don‘t just happen: They’re grown, with intention.
We help you learn and grow together and proactively address issues before they become problems — laying the foundation for a bright shared future.
Whether you choose premarital counseling online, premarital counseling in Denver, or a group premarital course, you’ll gain a toolbox of healthy relationship skills to keep your love strong for the long haul.
Comprehensive Premarital Assessment
Our effective secular premarital program starts with a 200+ question, in-depth relationship assessment to find your relationship’s strengths and growth opportunities. Then we help you have deep premarital conversations for commitment that help you both learn and grow.
Then, you’ll learn the strategies that will help you solve problems together before they arise.
Secular Premarital Counseling With True Relationship Experts
Most premarital counseling is conducted by clergy — not relationship experts. We’re different: All of our secular premarital counselors are marriage and family therapists — genuine relationship specialists with years of experience providing marriage counseling, couples therapy and relationship coaching.
We understand healthy relationships inside and out, and know how to help couples anticipate distant obstacles and build better relationships.
Our in depth approach sets your marriage up for success by helping you make positive changes that improve your relationship and lay the foundation for a strong, resilient marriage.
Ready to Grow?
Begin With a Free Consultation.
Our Structured Approach to Meaningful Premarital Counseling:
Assessment
It all starts with a comprehensive relationship assessment to reveal your relationship’s strengths, and growth opportunities.
Plan
When the results are in, your premarital counselor will help you create a plan to build a foundation for a great marriage.
tools
Then, you’ll learn effective skills and strategies to keep your relationship strong over the long haul, tailored to fit your needs.
The Benefits of Premarital Counseling:
1. Build Healthy Communication
With good communication, you can work through anything together. Learn productive, emotionally safe communication skills that help you both feel heard and understood — and avoid unproductive conflict.
2. Cultivate Emotional & Physical Intimacy
A deep intimate connection is the heart of a happy marriage. Learn to speak each other’s love languages, meet each other’s emotional needs, and keep the spark alive in the decades ahead.
4. Achieve Alignment Around Money
Our premarital counselors have special expertise in financial counseling for couples, and will teach you how to create a shared vision (and a plan) to manage your finances together.
5. Share Your Hopes, Goals & Values
Co-creating a meaningful future is what keeps you on track through life’s twists and turns. Premarital counseling uncovers your hopes, goals, and values for your shared life, then helps you make a solid plan to achieve them, together.
Our Premarital Counseling Services
Online Premarital Counseling
Online premarital counseling helps you achieve your relationship goals. Working with us online is a powerful, meaningful growth experience, perfect for:
- Couples outside of Denver
- Couples with busy schedules
- Long-distance couples
Learn more about online premarital counseling.
Denver Premarital Counseling
Attend in-person sessions with a Denver premarital counselor at one of our three Denver office locations.
- Denver / Cherry Creek
- Broomfield
Learn more about our Denver premarital counseling services.
Pre-Engagement Counseling
If you’re thinking about taking the next step, pre-engagement counseling is a smart way to get clarity, work through issues, and create a shared vision for your future.
Learn more about pre-engagement counseling.
Premarital Course
Our affordable six-hour, live premarital course helps you build healthy relationship skills, start courageous conversations, and find alignment around important issues.
Learn more about our “Lifetime of Love” premarital course.
Meet a Few of Our Premarital Counselors
What Our Clients Say
Sessions Available Online & In Person
Our Colorado Office Locations
Connect With Us
Begin your journey of growth by requesting a free consultation meeting with the expert of your choice. Not sure who to work with? Let us know your hopes and goals. We’ll provide customized recommendations about which experts would be a good fit, and help you schedule your first free consultation.“The strongest, happiest, most successful couples wisely use these opportunities to learn and grow, together.”
Welcome To Growing Self
Thank you for considering Growing Self for your journey into a lifetime of love and continual growth in the most important part of your life — your relationship. I know how much is on the line, and it is incredibly important to me that your work with us is genuinely meaningful and effective.
We are here for you every step of the way. In addition to our expert premarital counseling and coaching services, we have free tools and resources to support your growth as a couple.
Check out our for relationship advice, and be sure to visit our to get expert advice from our premarital counselors on our blog, and podcast. Consider taking our free “How Healthy is Your Relationship” class=”stk-highlight”>” quiz to discover your relationship’s strengths and growth opportunities.
You’re also invited to connect with me on Instagram to stay inspired and motivated on your journey of love, happiness and success. I hope you take advantage of all our resources: It’s all there for you!
Premarital Counseling Questions
Knowledge is power: Get all your premarital counseling questions answered, and educate yourself about your many options.
What is Premarital Counseling?
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How Long is Premarital Counseling?
Sometimes premarital counseling only takes a couple of sessions. Sometimes it can be more extensive. Learn how long premarital counseling takes.
Non-Religious Premarital Counseling
Yes, there is such a thing as “non-religious premarital counseling” that is evidence-based, and all about your relationship. Learn more…
Positive Pre Marital Counselling
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Questions to Ask Before Marriage
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Premarital Counseling Online
Doing premarital counseling online is easy, effective, and a great option for long-distance couples. Learn more…
Denver Premarital Counseling
We provide Denver premarital counseling services in person at our local offices: Denver and Broomfield. Learn more…
Lifetime of Love Premarital Course
Our fun-but-meaningful Lifetime of Love class teaches the six most important relationship skills. Learn about our premarital course.
Pre Marriage Counseling
Couples counseling before marriage is not necessarily the same thing as premarital counseling. Learn more…
Pre Engagement Counseling
Growing together through pre engagement counseling can help you gain clarity, and the confidence to move forward.
The Best Premarital Counseling
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Premarital Counseling Cost
Good premarital counseling is priceless. With us, it’s also affordable. Learn how much premarital counseling costs at Growing Self.
Insurance & Premarital Counseling
Couples are often curious if health insurance covers premarital counseling, and find the answer illuminating. Learn why…
Gift Premarital Counseling
You can help a couple create a happy, healthy marriage by “gifting” premarital counseling sessions. Here’s how…
The Premarital Collection
Our premarital counselors are here for you. Visit the premarital collection to view articles and podcasts featuring their best advice for premarital couples.
More Questions? Let’s Talk.
We’re available by phone, email, and chat, and happy to answer any of your questions about premarital counseling personally. Get in touch, anytime.
Start Premarital Counseling
Ready to begin premarital counseling at Growing Self? The first step is to book a free consultation meeting with the premarital counselor of your choice.