Breakup Coach
Expert Breakup Coaching to Move You Forward
Heal Your Heartbreak, One Step at a Time
As a breakup recovery expert specializing in breakup coaching to help you heal from heartbreak… I get a lot of questions.
“Dr. Lisa, how can I get over a breakup? I need to let this relationship go, but I can’t. Can I get back with my Ex? I can’t stop thinking about my Ex. I follow them on social media and it’s killing me. I want to contact my Ex, but know I shouldn’t. Why am I obsessing about my Ex moving on? Should I be friends with my Ex? How do I get over a broken heart? Please help.”
Can you relate?
Positive, Empowering Breakup Coaching
Why Work with a Breakup Coach?
Here’s the truth: Nobody can just “get over a breakup.” Nobody just “moves on.” And time alone will not heal your heart — you must take steps to release your attachment, take your power back, and move forward, stronger than before.
Growing Self’s breakup coaches can help. We are licensed therapists — but we do so much more than listen. We help you take action to rebuild your self-esteem, heal your broken heart, and lean into transformative personal growth. When you’re ready, we’ll even help you get back out there and find the love you deserve, equipped with the skills you need to build a healthy, enduring relationship.
Our Breakup Coaches are true experts.
You can find thousands of self-proclaimed “breakup coaches” on TikTok, but working with a breakup coach at Growing Self is completely different.
The breakup coaches at Growing Self are marriage and family therapists — true relationship experts with advanced degrees in counseling psychology and years of experience helping people like you build healthy relationships with themselves and we also practice coaching, helping you turn insight into positive, productive action and personal growth.
Traditional therapy is not always the right approach after a breakup. It can keep you feeling stuck, like you’re “just talking” about your feelings, or worse, being treated like there’s something wrong with you. Our breakup coaches understand that heartbreak is part of the human experience — and they use effective approaches based on the science of attachment to help you overcome it.
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Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby:
The Accidental Breakup Coach
I became a marriage counselor because I wanted to help people repair their relationships. But — as you know — some relationships can’t be saved.
I spent years attempting to help clients get over breakups using traditional talk therapy methods, but they didn’t work. My clients were stuck — and so was I.
I wanted to help them stop hurting. I began researching, and discovered that love is a biologically based, addictive process that leads to enduring, powerful attachment bonds. Positive, in the context of healthy relationships — but destructive when we become addicted to toxic relationships or those that aren’t sustainable. These ideas and an evidence-based recovery model allowed me to become a truly effective breakup coach, and to guide countless clients through the stages of breakup recovery and into growth and healing.
It led me to write the Exaholics book, create my How to Heal a Broken Heart program, and it led to my work training the breakup coaches on my team to effectively guide people like you through the healing process.
These ideas have helped many people rebuild after a breakup or a divorce, and I believe they will help you, too. I’m glad you’re here.
Sincerely,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Exaholics Book Reviews
Our Breakup Coaching and Breakup Therapy Services
Breakup Counseling & Breakup Coaching
Our compassionate breakup coaches are here to provide you with guidance, patience, and a nonjudgmental, supportive relationship as you work through the stages of healing after heartbreak.
We’ll be by your side every step of the way, helping you find your path forward.
Join Our Online Breakup Coaching Group
Our online breakup coaching group meets weekly and is facilitated by a Growing Self expert breakup recovery coach.
You can talk about what you’re going through, and get insight, support, and recommendations to help you move forward. Together, you’ll heal and grow. Join our online breakup coaching group.
How to Heal a Broken Heart:
Our Breakup Recovery Program
There are specific stages of healing that people go through after a breakup. Our “How to Heal a Broken Heart” online breakup recovery program guides you through them.
This program walks you step by step through the process of healing after a relationship loss — and you can attend the pre-recorded sessions at your own pace.
Learn about our How to Heal a Broken Heart Program.
Free Breakup Advice
From Our Blog + Podcast
Because we specialize in relationships and breakup recovery, we have lots of free breakup advice and numerous podcast episodes on the subject for you to take advantage of on our blog.
Please help yourself to the wisdom of our breakup recovery experts, and share these articles with your fellow travelers. It’s all here for you.
You can view breakup recovery podcast episodes on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and get free breakup advice in the Healing After Heartbreak Collection on our blog.
Meet a Few of Our Breakup Coaches and Divorce Coaches
What Our Clients Say
Connect With Us
Begin your journey of growth by requesting a free consultation meeting with the expert of your choice. Not sure who to work with? Let us know your hopes and goals. We’ll provide customized recommendations about which experts would be a good fit, and help you schedule your first free consultation.Divorce and Breakup Recovery Resources
Divorce & Breakup Advice
Get more free breakup and divorce recovery advice in our extensive library of articles and podcasts on the subject. Visit the Healing After Heartbreak Collection on our blog to access them all.
Discernment Counseling
If you or your partner are considering separation, discernment counseling can help you both gain clarity around whether or not there is hope for your relationship. Learn about discernment counseling.
When to Call It Quits
Is there still hope for your relationship, or is it best to part ways? Learn the signs that growth and healing are possible, vs. signs it’s time to call it quits in a relationship.
Amicable Divorce
Amicable divorce prioritizes the mental and emotional wellness of everyone involved and creates the foundation for a healthy co-parenting partnership. Learn how to achieve an amicable divorce.
Breakup Therapy & Divorce Counseling
Time alone does not heal. Effective, informed, evidence-based breakup therapy and divorce counseling help you heal, grow, and move forward into emotional freedom.
The Stages of a Breakup
Withdrawal, grieving, growing, rebuilding: Understanding the stages of recovery are vital to your healing process after a divorce. Learn about the stages of breakup recovery…
How to Leave a Toxic Relationship, With Dignity
Learn why it’s so hard to leave a toxic relationship, and the things you can do to empower and support yourself in your journey to emotional empowerment.
Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Ex
Can you ever stop loving someone? Want to know how to get over an ex? Learn how to stop thinking about someone so you can move on.
Are You Addicted to a Toxic Relationship?
Profoundly unhealthy relationships can be the hardest to get over. Find out if you’re addicted to a toxic relationship.
Exaholics: Breaking Your Addiction to an Ex Love
Why is it so hard to let go, even when you know you should? In her award-winning “Exaholics” book, Dr. Lisa explains why, and illuminates the path forward towards emotional liberation, growth, and recovery.
Online Breakup and Divorce Support Group
You’re not alone. Heal your heart in our positive, affirming online breakup and divorce support group, led by an experienced divorce and breakup recovery counselor.
Heal Your Broken Heart: Breakup Recovery Program
In this self-paced online breakup recovery program Dr. Lisa helps you work through the stages of healing from heartbreak, through empowering personal growth activities.
How Much Does Therapy Cost?
Good therapy is a priceless investment in your growth and healing, but not all therapy is valuable. Learn about the cost of therapy that moves you forward.
Stop a Divorce
The threat of divorce can actually be a turning point for a marriage if you understand how to use it as an opportunity to foster healing. In this podcast, learn how to stop a divorce.
Start Breakup Therapy or Divorce Counseling
If you’d like to work with a Growing Self divorce / breakup recovery expert, the first step is to have a free consultation meeting.
More Questions? Let’s Talk.
If you have questions about our services or would like support in connecting with one of our experts, we’re here for you by phone, email or chat. Get in touch, anytime.
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If you have questions about our services, would like recommendations about which expert is right for you, or need help scheduling a first appointment, please contact us by live chat, email, text, or phone.