This is What Divorce Therapy Should Be

Heal Smarter. Grow Stronger. Move Forward.

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Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

You Can’t Go Back… But You Can Move Forward. Here’s How.

Your whole life just got torn apart. You know you need support so you’re googling “divorce therapy near me” hoping to find something, someone to help yiou find your way. And you need and deserve that: This struggle is so real.


The person you built your future with is no longer part of it. Your routines, your identity, your plans — all changed. And now, in the midst of emotional devastation, you’re being asked to make life-altering decisions about parenting, finances, housing… everything.

You can’t go back.
You’re not sure how to move forward.
And you’re carrying pain, confusion, and fear — all while trying to hold it together.

You need support. Not just emotional support, but structure. Strategy. A plan. You need someone who can walk with you through the grief and help you rebuild — wisely, powerfully, and intentionally.

Divorce therapy is great for processing pain, but it often ends with insight. And insight is not enough. And you do not need to stew and ruminate unproductively. You need to grow. You need to move forward.

This isn’t just about healing.
It’s about using this time to make smart, values based decisions. It’s time to grow, reflect, and redesign your life into something even stronger.

You are in the right place. I’ll help you through it.

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A Smarter Alternative to Divorce Therapy

Recover

Heal your heart so you can make clear, confident decisions. Stop ruminating about your Ex and start rebuilding your life. Understand your emotions so they don’t run the show. Detach emotionally so you can co-parent with confidence. Learn more about our productive approach to Heartbreak Recovery →

Rebuild

Rebuild trust in yourself — your choices, your voice, your strength. Start over without starting from scratch. Get out of survival mode and into intentional, empowered living. Step forward with a plan, a purpose, and the tools to build the life you truly deserve. Best yet? You can start today →

Rebuild Stronger, Wiser, and Free

We Help You Let Go of The Past…

And Grow Forward Into Your Future.

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Not Sure Whether to Stay or Go? Discernment Coaching Creates Clarity.

You’re not sure if your marriage can — or should — be saved. You’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and afraid of making the wrong decision.

Discernment coaching with a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in heatlhy relationships offers a safe, structured way to slow down and explore what’s really possible for your relationship — without pressure or blame.

If there’s a future worth fighting for, we’ll help you find it.
If it’s time to part, we’ll help you do it peacefully.

Discover how discernment coaching can guide you to clarity, confidence, and the right next step →

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Healing From a Broken Heart

Time alone does not heal.
I’ve worked with clients who were still ruminating about their divorce ten years later. (Often after ten years of expensive, unproductive “divorce therapy” where they just rehash the past.) Don’t let that happen to you.

Divorce is so much more than paperwork, court dates, or dividing assets.
It’s the collapse of dreams. It’s grief, rage, confusion, and fear — all at once.

A traditional divorce therapist has no idea that there are nine specific stages of recovery after a major relationship loss, and you have to move through all of them — in the right order — to come out whole on the other side.

I created the Heal From Heartbreak™ program to guide you through this process — not just to feel better, but to rebuild your identity, restore your peace, and redesign your life with clarity and purpose.

Let’s put the pieces back together — stronger than before.

Start your healing journey now →

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You Done Have to Go Through This Alone: Breakup & Divorce Support Group

This is where healing gets real. Join a powerful community of people walking through the same path. Through weekly group coaching and round-the-clock support, the Heartbreak Growth Collective gives you expert strategies, emotional clarity, and the comfort of knowing you’re no longer doing this alone.

Together, you’ll share, heal, and grow — with expert guidance from group sessions with a licensed divorce therapist who specializes in divorce recovery and 24/7 access to our private online support community.

Learn about our breakup and divorce recovery coaching group.

Navigate Post-Divorce Growth

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Build a New Normal For You, and Your Kids

For many people, the worst part of going through a divorce with kids is knowing that your kids are hurting too — but not knowing how to support them emotionally.

Our marriage and family therapists have insight and expertise into the effects of divorce on children, plus positive parenting and attachment-based parent coaching strategies that can help you and your children grieve losses, heal hearts, and grow hopeful for a positive new chapter.

Through our Heal From Heartbreak program you can add on private coaching sessions with a dedicated, licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in divorce recovery, and who can work with you to develop a customized plan to support both you, and your kids. Get started right now →

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Coparenting Doesn’t Have to Be a Battle

Divorce may end your marriage — but your parenting relationship is just beginning.
Through the Heal From Heartbreak™ program, you can add on private coaching sessions with a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in divorce therapy and coaching, and coparenting.

You’ll learn how to communicate without conflict, set healthy boundaries, prioritize your kids while keeping the peace. Because a strong coparenting relationship isn’t just possible, it’s essential.

And it starts with you. When you do your own work, process the pain, create closure, get clarity, you release the emotional reactivity, and become able to navigate this new chapter of your relationship with your ex, with integrity, wisdom, and confidence. Start healing your heart, and your family, today →

Flourish & Thrive After Divorce

This is Your Turning Point: A New You Starts Here

It’s time to become who you were meant to be. Rebuild your life, with purpose.

Going through a divorce changes you — but what comes next is up to you. Holistic life design coaching takes you past what is possible in traditional divorce therapy. It helps you turn pain into insight, meaning, and growth by understanding your patterns, expanding your self-awareness, and building a life that reflects your strength and clarity.

You can do the work of moving from healing to wholeness, and design a bright new chapter for your life, step by step. Here’s how →

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Career Coaching Services

After divorce, many people are left with new financial realities — plus new opportunities and motivation to recalibrate their careers.

You can connect with a Growing Self career development specialist who can support your professional growth and help you achieve your career aspirations.

Learn about our career coaching services.

Dating After Divorce

If and when you’re ready to start dating after divorce, we can help you create a healthy new relationship and the lifetime of love that you’ve always deserved.

Learn about our dating coaching services.

Better Than Divorce Therapy: Effective Help To Heal, Grow, and Rebuild

Better Than Therapy


Our licensed therapists specialize in evidence-based coaching psychology. We go beyond “divorce therapy,” moving you through insight and processing, towards clarity, growth, and action.

Online Divorce Coaching


Heal and grow from anywhere. Our full program, group coaching, and private sessions are available online.

Effective Help


Therapy can help you understand your pain, but it doesn’t always show you how to heal it. Our method gives you a clear, step-by-step process to recover, grow, and rebuild your life with intention.

Start Today


Get instant access to the full Heal From Heartbreak program — no waiting lists, no delays. Access your online support group immediately, and have your first private session within the week. Free trial. Start now →

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