Relationship Coaching

Love Your Relationship

Why Relationship Coaching?

Evidence-based, action-oriented relationship coaching is the most direct way of creating positive changes in your relationship.

Why? Relationship Coaching is different from traditional forms of marriage counseling and couples therapy in that it’s action-oriented and results-based. The goal of relationship coaching is to help you improve practical aspects of your day-to-day life together, and change your way of relating to each other for the better.

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Relationship Coaching for:

Healthy Communication

Communication issues are the downfall of many couples. Working on your communication skills is the most important thing you can do to strengthen your relationship.

A great relationship coach teaches you to enhance your listening skills, and improve communication, so you can protect your relationship in times of stress. Through this work, you’ll both feel validated, and better able to solve issues productively.

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Relationship Coaching For:

Love and Respect

You both deserve to feel loved and respected.

Your relationship coach will help you both identify your love languages and relationship needs and learn how to show love and respect in the ways that are most meaningful to each other.

Practicing this kind of generous love every day helps you grow into supportive and unconditionally loving friends, lovers, and partners.

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Relationship Coaching For:

Emotional & Sexual Intimacy

An expert relationship coach will help you both dive deep to understand each other on a core, vulnerable level. You’ll learn to build emotional intimacy through evidence-based strategies focused on strong attachment and positive action.

Your strong foundation of authenticity, understanding, and generosity helps you improve your sexual intimacy, as well as your emotional connection.

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Relationship Coaching For:

A Bright, Shared Future

Every long-term couple has challenges. What matters is how you use them to continue growing together.

Your relationship coach will help you hear and understand each other in a new way, explore your expectations, and set long-term goals that honor your most important hopes, dreams, and values.

This is the work that paves the way to a bright, shared future.

Why Growing Self? Our Relationship Coaches are Different.

Here’s a dirty secret about relationship coaching: There is zero education or training required to call yourself a relationship coach. Even worse, while you do need a degree and licensure to be a therapist, most therapists providing couples counseling have little to no specialized training in couples and family therapy — to the detriment of many unsuspecting couples.

In contrast, Growing Self is a collective of world-class marriage and family therapists with advanced degrees in couples and family therapy and years of experience in evidence-based approaches to helping couples flourish and thrive. Our relationship experts provide empowering, positive, action-oriented relationship coaching, as well as couples therapy and marriage counseling. Learn more about Growing Self, and our team of relationship experts.

Love Your Relationship


You can have a fun, easy, fulfilling, and vibrant partnership
that brings out the best in both of you.

That’s what working with a world-class
relationship coach can do.

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Relationship Coaching Moves You Forward

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1. Creating Clarity & Confidence

The best relationships are designed with thought and intention.

Your relationship coach will begin by conducting an assessment to reveal your relationship’s strengths, as well as its growth opportunities. You’ll get a fresh perspective and a plan of action to build the strong relationship you both want.

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2. Nurturing Your Growth

Happy couples aren’t just lucky. They’re skilled.

Your relationship coach will help you build your relationship skills, improve communication, manage conflict, and show each other love and respect. Relationship coaching helps you grow as individuals, and as a couple.

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3. Turning Insight Into Action

Effective relationship coaching is about overcoming challenges — not just talking about them.

Your relationship coach will take a structured approach to turn your relationship goals into your relationship reality. You’ll get assignments, motivation, and accountability that move you forward, together.

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4. Building a Powerhouse Partnership

When you work as a team, you can take on the world together.

An expert relationship coach uses effective strategies to help you negotiate
finances, parenting, housework, and more. You can create a balanced, powerhouse partnership that you both love.

Meet a Few of Our Expert Relationship Coaches

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Begin your journey of growth by requesting a free consultation meeting with the expert of your choice.

Not sure who to work with? Let us know your hopes and goals. We’ll provide customized recommendations about which experts would be a good fit, and help you schedule your first free consultation.

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Laurel K.,, Cllient Support Lead

We are here for you! Our caring, collaborative client services team is ready to support you on your journey of growth.

If you have questions about our services, would like recommendations about which expert is right for you, or need help scheduling a first appointment please contact us by live chat, email, text, or phone.