Repair Trust & Heal Your Bond
Restore Love and Hope
After the trauma of infidelity, it’s normal to wonder if your relationship can survive. But couples counseling for affair recovery work helps you do more than survive infidelity. It helps you restore hope, redesign your relationship in powerful ways, and come out the other side stronger than ever before.
Through skillful marriage counseling or couples therapy, our relationship experts guide you through the process of healing after infidelity so you can rebuild love, repair trust, and regain confidence in your future.
Move Forward, Together
Betrayal takes many forms, emotional infidelity, sexual infidelity, or financial infidelity — all are painful and require a slow and delicate process of rebuilding trust. You can’t just make an apology and leave the past behind… but you can move forward.
Our affair recovery experts are marriage and family therapists, trained to help you work through the complex feelings that accompany all forms of infidelity, so you can work towards forgiveness, find peace, rebuild trust, and create a bright new chapter.
Why is Affair Recovery Counseling Different With Growing Self?
Our relationship experts are marriage and family therapists with specialized training and experience in helping couples rebuild trust, restore secure attachment, and repair their bond after infidelity or betrayal.
We use evidence-based approaches to marriage counseling and couples therapy, including The Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, to help couples heal and grow, and build a strong future.
The Stages of Affair Recovery and Healing after Infidelity
Recovering from infidelity is a process, not an event. Our experienced experts guide you through the stages of healing after infidelity, whether it’s sexual or emotional infidelity, so you can move past the past, and grow together into a bright new future.
In the aftermath of an affair, it’s normal to have complex, painful feelings. The betrayed partner may feel rage and intense anxiety. For the partner who committed infidelity, feelings of avoidance and ambivalence are common, as are shame and guilt.
Our compassionate, nonjudgemental approach helps restore emotional safety and responsiveness that promotes healing and growth for both of you.
Repairing Your Attachment
When secure attachment bonds are threatened or broken, it is a profoundly traumatic experience.
Our experienced marriage counselors use an evidence-based framework that emphasizes compassion, empathy, and a deep understanding of attachment trauma to help you repair attachment bonds after infidelity. We can help you rebuild sex after infidelity, and work through lingering trust issues.
Through this process, your love, enjoyment, and appreciation for each other can be restored.
Rebuilding trust after infidelity or betrayal is a process that requires active, skillful participation from both partners.
Our evidence-based approach to affair recovery helps you build the emotional connection, open communication, and empathy necessary for trust and growth to flourish.
We’ll help you create a “trust rebuilding plan” that supports authentic healing – and protects your relationship as you move forward.
Meet a Few of Our Affair Recovery Experts
See What Our Clients are Saying
“We’re doing great! Indeed we had some fights, but always with a happy ending and no hard feelings afterwards. Thanks a lot for your help, it was crucial for our development as a couple.”
“Rachel does an amazing job facilitating constructive conversations, identifying root causes, and formulating a plan for tackling issues. My wife and I have tremendously benefited from our sessions with Rachel. Our relationship is stronger and there is more understanding between us.”
“Stephanie has helped us greatly with our communication and connection. We have had a very positive experience, and I am grateful for the wonderful help we’ve received.”
“Not only was Renelle a great personality fit for us, her intelligence and experience in the areas we need really came through along with her approach as a teacher as much as a therapist – all the things we are looking for.”
“Georgi has been creative in her approach and committed to helping us grow”
“Bre is very bubbly but also patient and good at taking care of any concerns or questions throughout the process.”
“The most helpful parts were Seth’s ability to very carefully facilitate the very hard conversations that my wife and I could not do on our own”
“Lisa is very kind and she can hear our concerns and guide and direct us appropriately.”
“Elizabeth always is prepared. She is thoughtful and asks thought-provoking questions. We are enjoying our sessions with her.”
“Hunter is kind and unbiased in his work. He makes us feel comfortable and has a strong background to intelligently move us in the right direction.”
“We’re both doing really great and we attribute it to our time with you [Roseann]. It truly has been a growing experience for us both, and while we’re still practicing the things you taught us- we both feel heard by the other. We thank you so much for your guidance during such a rough time. I can’t speak for xx, but I feel like I have my best friend back.”
“I just wanted to thank you [Roseann] for the great session today. Your read on things has been remarkably accurate and we’re really happy we found you. I know we’re just beginning, but I’m incredibly encouraged by the real progress we’re already making and we’re very much looking forward to seeing you next week.”
“Jessica has a way about her. She is very skilled at listening to us and picking out where we can improve our communication/connection with each other.”
“Even though we just started, Georgiana is already helping us come together stronger as a couple. I appreciate her candor, frankness and suggestions.”
“Kaily was fantastic to work with. My wife and I both appreciated how easy she was to talk to and found her advice and techniques to be very helpful. She did a great job at relating with us that made it easier to open up with our problems.”
“Josephine showed us tools for recognizing conflicts / poor communication and pursuing resolution and achieving thoughtful dialogue. She also reinforced what was good about our relationship :)”
“Brittany has helped us find ways to deal with our differences, and avoid the downward spiraling of dumb bickering. We have learned ways to better communicate, relax our minds and bodies when things seem to be going badly, and stay more connected with each other.”
“We worked through the arguments using the skills you have taught us and we are generally doing okay. A lot of the credit for that is thanks to your help. Thank you for all that you have done for us. We are very happy together and it is mostly thanks to the support you have given us.”
“Brittany was very insightful. She was very easy for us to talk to. We enjoyed our experience with Brittany.”
“I like Jennifer’s explanation of her approach and her career experience aligns with what we are looking for.”
“Kanya is a delight to work with. She is helping me a lot to focus on important parts of myself to grow a healthy relationship.”
“Dr. Rachel is knowledgeable and professional. She is helping us make real progress on our relationship challenges and we are stronger as a team because of her guidance”.
“Kathleen is supportive, adaptive, and professional. After a few sessions, I feel that she has taken the time to understand us and tailor our sessions to fit our style!”
“Our time with Josephine has been great so far. It gives us time set aside to talk and be listened to! We are learning great ways to embrace our differences and how to better communicate.”
“He listens well. Hunter helped to teach us how to listen to each other, and how to be vulnerable, honest, and to open up about everything.”
“Hunter taught us many useful techniques to help us communicate better, recognize and resolve conflicts. We also really like the part where he asked us to re-do our conversations. Those practices help us catch ourselves even before conflicts arise.”
“She was a very good listener, and did a good job at making my partner and I both feeling heard.”
“Elizabeth is very understanding of our situation and is giving us the insight and tools we need to have a successful solution to our problems.”
“She’s very nice. She’s smart and she leads the sessions well. We really like Tomauro.”
“She’s [Georgi] empathetic, caring and we both feel supported by her.”
“Lisa makes me feel very relaxed and comfortable. She gave good insight and overall it was a really positive experience. We are looking forward to continuing our work with her.”
“Brittany was a great help, very thoughtful, and offered great insight and advice throughout our time together. I always felt heard/comfortable and she was encouraging of us stepping outside of our comfort zone. I can’t thank Brittany enough for how kind and supportive she is!”
“We absolutely loved working with Jenna. We both were emotional when closing out, never thought we could get closer and stronger in our relationship, yet we have grown leaps and bounds.”
“She has provided us with reassurance and helpful techniques to use.”
“The most helpful part was Hunter’s understanding nature and ability to condense down what we said. He was very affirming in nature and was also able to offer perspective. I really appreciate that we was the one who led the discussion about having achieved our goals. As for different, I don’t think there is anything at this time.”
“Dr. Amy is very professional and helpful.”
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“My partner and I have been seeing Dr. Harold for 4-5 couples sessions so far, and he has been incredibly personable and warm from our first time meeting him at the consult. He has provided us both with a safe place where we feel encouraged to be vulnerable with one another. We absolutely love working with him, and plan to keep doing so!”
“I was comfortable with Ben and how he explained everything we could expect the first visit. I think he was fair to both of us and I would be interested in his insight.”
“I feel Ben is a good fit for us. We both felt comfortable talking with him.”
“Georgi was wonderful and I really appreciated her process minded approach. She was very good at deconstructing complex situations or emotions in a methodical way that made obstacles seem easier to overcome. She also made sure that myself and my partner felt validated throughout the process. I like that Georgi let us come forward with anything that happened in the week but she also always had a plan to direct the conversation in case we did not have anything to talk about.”
“We are getting the tools that we need to better communicate and be more considerate of one another’s moods and needs. Natalie has offered straightforward information and concrete steps. Also, the zoom meetings are far more effective than I anticipated. The technology is easy to use and it creates the right environment for this sort of thing.”
“The best thing that Hunter did was hold us accountable and make sure that we were always clear and understood. If at any time we didn’t feel like we were achieving anything he was there to help guide us to more vulnerable communication.”
“Lisa seemed to understand our unique situation and highly capable of helping us.”
“Georgi has been great. We’ve only had a few foundational sessions so far, but the time my partner and I spend both in and out of the office has been tremendously helpful.”
“She [Dr. Georgiana] is taking us through historical issues that need to be addressed before we can move forward. She tells it straight, “If things continue like this you can expect xyz…” She encourages and makes a case for decisions to be made, to take a stand and follow through.”
“Teresa’s welcoming smile, warm and personal approach, and consistent ability to positively shift our perspectives really helped us grow as individuals, and as a couple.”
“The quiz we took separately and then reviewing our answers to learn about our similarities and differences was really helpful. Also the “I feel/I need” communication technique was great advice!”
“Her ability to facilitate open and honest conversation has been extremely impactful.”
“Dori is understanding and calm, and helps us understand our feelings, communicate them, celebrate all positive steps, stay positive, and feel hopeful and loving toward each other.”
“Dr. Georgiana has been an enormous help to us as we’ve confronted challenging issues. She is helping us talk through things effectively.”
“Dori helped us so much. Over multiple discussions, she helped us gain insights into what the other person was truly thinking and feeling, and what we were afraid to admit, too. She also gave us a collection of tools to try when things get tough. The combination of all these things has helped us work through and past much of the tension we couldn’t get over before.”
“I like the way that she talks with us and she makes me feel really comfortable after previous therapy experiences going poorly. And I think that she gives us good homework and tools that we can use.”
“Linda is an empathetic listener, an analytical counselor. She helps you live better.”
“Linda makes us feel safe. She makes it so that we know that we are going to get through this together and come out stronger.”
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