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Love Your Relationship

Because Amazing Relationships Don't Just Happen. They're Grown.

Like anything else worth having, fantastic relationships require intention, cultivation, and support.

The happiest, healthiest, most successful couples are the ones who take care of their relationships, and enlist the support of a pro to make their relationship the best it can be.

We specialize in relationships, and know how to help you create a satisfying, secure, and joyful partnership.

Our approach is positive and effective. We use only evidence-based strategies that have been proven by research to help couples create connection.

Whether we’re working with you in Marriage Counseling or Couples Therapy to repair your bond, Relationship Coaching to make your good relationship great, Premarital Counseling to create a strong foundation or Dating Coaching to nurture a beautiful new love, we can help you create a happy, healthy relationship. Looking for marriage counseling in Denver or online couples counseling? Schedule your free consultation today.

We Are Relationship Specialists

Real Help For Your Relationship

Our relationship experts have specialized training and experience in couples and family therapy. They know how to help you:

  • Improve Communication
  • Stop Fighting, Start Understanding
  • Restore Love and Respect
  • Repair Trust and Security
  • Increase Emotional and Sexual Intimacy
  • Get in Alignment Around Values & Priorities
  • Parent Together Effectively
  • Create Agreement Around Finances, Housework & More
  • Enjoy Each Other Again

Meet Our Relationship Experts

Working With Us is Easy & Effective

    We can often help couples who have had unsuccessful past experiences in couples counseling. Why?
  • We only provide evidence-based marriage counseling and couples therapy with highly trained, experienced experts
  • We offer convenience to busy, working couples including office locations around Denver (Cherry Creek, Denver Tech Center and Broomfield Colorado), as well as San Fransico, California.
  • We offer online video meeting options if you’re outside of the states we serve
  • We offer free consultation sessions
  • We have affordable, sliding scale rates
  • We offer evening and weekend appointment times
  • We can frequently help you use your insurance

What Our Clients Say About
Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling With Us

When we first saw you we were at the lowest point in our history. To think of all that we have come through to be where we are today, I really cannot give you enough credit for your help.

Former Client

You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been.

Former Client

Thank you for helping us find our strong bond again. I can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.

Former Client

Our Relationship Services

Grow Together, Not Apart

Marriage Counseling Denver • Online Marriage Counseling

Through effective, evidence-based Marriage Counseling we can teach you how to turn your conflict into connection, create a positive new chapter in your marriage, and take your relationship to the next level of strength and intimacy.

Be Happy, Together

Denver Couples Counseling  • Online Couples Counseling

All couples need to come together in day-to-day aspects of life.  Through positive, straightforward Couples Counseling we can help you improve your communication, resolve conflict, create agreements… and get back on the same page again.

Create a Lifetime of Love

Denver Premarital Counseling • Online Premarital Counseling

Have a beautiful wedding, but invest in your marriage.  Our positive Premarital Counseling will help you you identify potential friction points, create agreement in essential areas, learn how to communicate, and create an emotional connection that can last a lifetime.

Find The One

Denver Dating Coach • Online Dating Coach • San Francisco Dating Coach

Our expertise in relationships makes Dating Coaching with us extraordinarily effective. We’ll help you understand your patterns in relationships, and how to create the kind of happy and healthy new relationship you desire.

Online Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy

Let’s Meet at Your Place

Busy couples often struggle to find the time for their relationship. We make it easy — no sitter, no driving, no hassle. Long distance? No problem.

Meet with our expert marriage counselors, relationship coaches and premarital counselors from the privacy of your own home(s). We help couples all over the country, and internationally, to create happy, satisfying relationships.

 

 

Meet a Few Of Our Relationship Experts

The marriage counselors, couples therapists and premarital counselors of Growing Self have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.

 

 

 

Hunter Tolman

Hunter Tolman

M.S., MFTC

Hunter is an exceptionally warm, compassionate couples counselor and therapist who has specialized training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy as well as family systems. He helps individuals gain self-awareness and move past self-limiting patterns, and helps couples achieve deeper levels of communication, connection, and commitment. He can help you both to understand yourselves, and each other, so that you can create new, positive ways of relating that heal your bond.

 

 

Amanda Schaeffer

Amanda Schaeffer

M.S., MFTC

Amanda is a Marriage Counselor, Premarital Counselor and Family Therapist with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples and families understand each other compassionately, feel emotionally safe, and learn how to relate in positive new ways that allow them to start enjoying each other again.

 

 

 

Teresa Thomas

Teresa Thomas

M.A.

 

 

Teresa Thomas is a marriage counselor and couples therapist with years of experience in helping couples communicate more effectively, find new solutions to old problems, repair their strong bond, rebuild trust after affairs, successfully blend families, improve their sexual intimacy, and parent joyfully together. She is a couples therapist and parenting coach with a positive, solution focused style who specializes in helping you both make positive changes to your life, as well as to your relationship.

 

 

Meagan Terry

Meagan Terry

M.A., LMFT

 

Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. She uses effective, evidence based forms of marriage counseling including Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class.

 

 

Seth Bender

Seth Bender

M. A., LMFTC

 

Seth Bender is a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in helping couples heal their relationships, improve communication, release resentments, and achieve new levels of enjoyment and fulfillment with each other. He practices Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you strengthen your bond, as well as positive, empowering and solution focused coaching strategies to help you both take positive action in your relationship.  

 

 

Dori Bagi

Dori Bagi

M. S., ASORC

 

Dori is a kind, empathetic couples counselor, individual therapist, and life coach who specializes in sex therapy, and helping couples create healthy emotional and sexual intimacy. Her friendly style makes it safe to talk about anything, and her solution-focused approach helps you move past the past, and into a bright new future of intimacy and connection.

 

Polly Drew

Polly Drew

M.Ed., LMFT

Polly is a marriage counselor with over 25 years of experience in helping couples "come back from the brink," heal their strong bond, and enter into a positive and satisfying new chapter of life together. Her warm, competent style will put you both at ease and help you find new solutions to old problems.

Relationship Advice on the Love, Happiness and Success Blog + Podcast

How to Fix a Relationship After a Fight

How to Fix a Relationship After a Fight

If you’ve just had a bad fight with your partner and are seeking to repair your relationship, help is here. Get actionable relationship advice plus access to free relationship resources that will help you get past this crisis, heal your bond, and grow stronger and happier than ever before.

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Emotional Affair Recovery

Emotional Affair Recovery

Emotional affairs can be just as destructive to a relationship as sexual affairs. However, it is possible to restore trust, feel secure, and heal your bond after an affair. Here’s how…

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How to Deal With Selfish People

How to Deal With Selfish People

Do you often feel hurt, or frustrated by someone you care about? If so, you might be in a relationship with a selfish person. Get advice for how to deal (or when to cut your losses), now on the blog.

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Constructive Conflict: Arguments That Help Your Relationship Grow

Constructive Conflict: Arguments That Help Your Relationship Grow

Conflict in an evolving relationship is normal (and often healthy!). However, there is a real difference between healthy, constructive conflict and unhealthy, destructive conflict. Marriage Therapist and Dating Coach, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, expounds on this critical relationship topic today on the Love, Happiness and Success blog.

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12 Effective Ways to Destroy Your Relationship

12 Effective Ways to Destroy Your Relationship

Are you unknowingly making serious relationship mistakes that are damaging the health of your partnership? Learn the most important things to avoid (and what to do instead!) in order to have a fantastic relationship on this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

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Free Relationship Advice From a Marriage Counselor

Free Relationship Advice From a Marriage Counselor

Scouring the internet for honest, useful relationship advice to help your partnership heal and grow? Look no further: The latest episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast is devoted to answering YOUR relationship questions — listen now!

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