Love Your RelationshipBecause Amazing Relationships Don't Just Happen. They're Grown.
We Are Relationship Specialists
What Our Clients Say About
Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling With Us
When we first saw you we were at the lowest point in our history. To think of all that we have come through to be where we are today, I really cannot give you enough credit for your help.
You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been.
Thank you for helping us find our strong bond again. I can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.
Our Relationship Services
Grow Together, Not Apart
Through effective, evidence-based Marriage Counseling we can teach you how to turn your conflict into connection, create a positive new chapter in your marriage, and take your relationship to the next level of strength and intimacy.
Be Happy, Together
All couples need to come together in day-to-day aspects of life. Through positive, straightforward Couples Counseling we can help you improve your communication, resolve conflict, create agreements… and get back on the same page again.
Create a Lifetime of Love
Have a beautiful wedding, but invest in your marriage. Our positive Premarital Counseling will help you you identify potential friction points, create agreement in essential areas, learn how to communicate, and create an emotional connection that can last a lifetime.
Find The One
Our expertise in relationships makes Dating Coaching with us extraordinarily effective. We’ll help you understand your patterns in relationships, and how to create the kind of happy and healthy new relationship you desire.
Online Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy
Let’s Meet at Your Place
Busy couples often struggle to find the time for their relationship. We make it easy — no sitter, no driving, no hassle. Long distance? No problem.
Meet with our expert marriage counselors, relationship coaches and premarital counselors from the privacy of your own home(s). We help couples all over the country, and internationally, to create happy, satisfying relationships.
Meet a Few Of Our Relationship Experts
The marriage counselors, couples therapists and premarital counselors of Growing Self have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.
Hunter is an exceptionally warm, compassionate couples counselor and therapist who has specialized training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy as well as family systems. He helps individuals gain self-awareness and move past self-limiting patterns, and helps couples achieve deeper levels of communication, connection, and commitment. He can help you both to understand yourselves, and each other, so that you can create new, positive ways of relating that heal your bond.
Amanda is a Marriage Counselor, Premarital Counselor and Family Therapist with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples and families understand each other compassionately, feel emotionally safe, and learn how to relate in positive new ways that allow them to start enjoying each other again.
Teresa Thomas is a marriage counselor and couples therapist with years of experience in helping couples communicate more effectively, find new solutions to old problems, repair their strong bond, rebuild trust after affairs, successfully blend families, improve their sexual intimacy, and parent joyfully together. She is a couples therapist and parenting coach with a positive, solution focused style who specializes in helping you both make positive changes to your life, as well as to your relationship.
Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. She uses effective, evidence based forms of marriage counseling including Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class.
M. A., LMFTC
Seth Bender is a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in helping couples heal their relationships, improve communication, release resentments, and achieve new levels of enjoyment and fulfillment with each other. He practices Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you strengthen your bond, as well as positive, empowering and solution focused coaching strategies to help you both take positive action in your relationship.
M. S., ASORC
Dori is a kind, empathetic couples counselor, individual therapist, and life coach who specializes in sex therapy, and helping couples create healthy emotional and sexual intimacy. Her friendly style makes it safe to talk about anything, and her solution-focused approach helps you move past the past, and into a bright new future of intimacy and connection.
Polly is a marriage counselor with over 25 years of experience in helping couples "come back from the brink," heal their strong bond, and enter into a positive and satisfying new chapter of life together. Her warm, competent style will put you both at ease and help you find new solutions to old problems.
Relationship Advice on the Love, Happiness and Success Blog + Podcast
Long-term relationships can sometimes start to feel stagnant when you’ve both been doing life together for so long. Marriage Therapist and Relationship Coach, Hunter Tolman, M.S., MFTC shares a simple step towards new beginnings in your relationship. Check it out here…
Human beings are built to bond — but we can also develop powerful bonds to unhelpful behaviors, toxic people, and even substances of abuse. Understanding the power of connection can help you break unhealthy attachments, and cultivate empowering, energizing new ones. Here’s how…
If your marriage has been feeling hard for a while, it’s normal to have doubts. Many troubled marriages can be saved, but not all. Here are the top signs it might be time to call it quits.
Whether you’re a premarital couple hoping to keep your great relationship healthy and strong, or have a marriage on the brink of divorce, this podcast is for you: Divorce lawyer Jim Sexton shares his unique insight into why couples split, and what you can do to save your relationship.
You have the power to actively create your ideal reality ten years from now. Listen to this podcast and get the free “My Ten Year Plan” tool to get clarity about what you REALLY want… and empowering awareness about how to make it happen.
On this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast therapist and author Dr. Mark Borg talks about his new book, “Don’t Be a Dick,” and shares his advice for how to stay calm and compassionate. (Even when other people are being jerks.)