Nurture Your Relationship.
No one teaches us how to have strong, healthy relationships. We just fall in love and hope for the best. All couples have challenges to work through, but the strongest, happiest ones use proactively use these “growth moments” as an opportunity to nurture their relationship, by seeking out couples counseling.
Couples therapy helps you…
Why Are They So Happy?
Couples Therapy at Growing Self is Different.
Here’s a dirty secret: Most therapists offering couples counseling have had, at best, one graduate-level class on the subject. They don‘t know what they don’t know, and it creates unhappy outcomes for unsuspecting couples.
Our couples therapists are different: We are marriage and family therapists — true relationship experts with advanced degrees specifically in couples and family therapy, and years of specialized experience in helping couples get out of unhealthy relationship patterns and rebuild their strong bond.
We use evidence-based approaches to couples therapy that help you heal, grow, and build transformative understanding for yourselves and each other. Then, you’ll learn skills and strategies to make positive changes that stick.
Couples Therapy Makes Your Good Relationship Great.
The strongest couples are the ones who care enough
to work on themselves and intentionally create a great relationship.
Couples therapy is where they learned how.
Our positive approach to therapy brings out the best in both of you: compassion, validation, personal responsibility, and emotional security.
We’ll help you design a bright future together that focuses on your strengths, honors your secure attachment, resolves conflict, and helps you both be emotionally safe, supportive partners who meet each other’s needs.
Happy, healthy, enduring relationships don’t happen by accident. They’re created by couples who’ve learned how to communicate effectively, cultivate emotional intimacy, and show each other love and respect.
Productive couples therapy teaches you how to create harmony, appreciation, and gratitude for each other, so you can keep your relationship strong for years to come.
Insight is great, but it‘s not enough. Our evidence-based therapy gives you an actionable roadmap to overcome toxic relationship patterns once and for all — not just talk about it.
Effective couples counselors provide clear direction about how to not just avoid the biggest relationship mistakes, but what to do differently in order to get better results — and then hold you accountable for following through.
Getting involved with a world-class couples counselor or relationship coach is easy. All of our relationship counseling services are available online (and yes, we provide long-distance couples counseling, too).
If you’d like to meet in person, we provide couples counseling in Denver too, and convenient office locations in central Denver, Broomfield, and Greenwood Village, Colorado.
Meet a Few of Our Expert Couples Therapists
See What Our Clients are Saying
“Our time with Josephine has been great so far. It gives us time set aside to talk and be listened to! We are learning great ways to embrace our differences and how to better communicate.”
“He listens well. Hunter helped to teach us how to listen to each other, and how to be vulnerable, honest, and to open up about everything.”
“Not only was Renelle a great personality fit for us, her intelligence and experience in the areas we need really came through along with her approach as a teacher as much as a therapist – all the things we are looking for.”
“Elizabeth always is prepared. She is thoughtful and asks thought-provoking questions. We are enjoying our sessions with her.”
“Georgi was wonderful and I really appreciated her process minded approach. She was very good at deconstructing complex situations or emotions in a methodical way that made obstacles seem easier to overcome. She also made sure that myself and my partner felt validated throughout the process. I like that Georgi let us come forward with anything that happened in the week but she also always had a plan to direct the conversation in case we did not have anything to talk about.”
“Hunter taught us many useful techniques to help us communicate better, recognize and resolve conflicts. We also really like the part where he asked us to re-do our conversations. Those practices help us catch ourselves even before conflicts arise.”
“She’s [Georgi] empathetic, caring and we both feel supported by her.”
“I like Jennifer’s explanation of her approach and her career experience aligns with what we are looking for.”
“I was comfortable with Ben and how he explained everything we could expect the first visit. I think he was fair to both of us and I would be interested in his insight.”
“The most helpful parts were Seth’s ability to very carefully facilitate the very hard conversations that my wife and I could not do on our own”
“Jessica has a way about her. She is very skilled at listening to us and picking out where we can improve our communication/connection with each other.”
“Her ability to facilitate open and honest conversation has been extremely impactful.”
“Teresa’s welcoming smile, warm and personal approach, and consistent ability to positively shift our perspectives really helped us grow as individuals, and as a couple.”
“Stephanie has helped us greatly with our communication and connection. We have had a very positive experience, and I am grateful for the wonderful help we’ve received.”
“Kensington was intentional and warm, which is something we appreciate when it comes to letting someone in our personal life. Kensington asked us questions and provided feedback which was great as well.”
“Dr. Rachel is knowledgeable and professional. She is helping us make real progress on our relationship challenges and we are stronger as a team because of her guidance”.
“We’re doing great! Indeed we had some fights, but always with a happy ending and no hard feelings afterwards. Thanks a lot for your help, it was crucial for our development as a couple.”
“Kanya is a delight to work with. She is helping me a lot to focus on important parts of myself to grow a healthy relationship.”
“Even though we just started, Georgiana is already helping us come together stronger as a couple. I appreciate her candor, frankness and suggestions.”
“Dr. Georgiana has been an enormous help to us as we’ve confronted challenging issues. She is helping us talk through things effectively.”
“We absolutely loved working with Jenna. We both were emotional when closing out, never thought we could get closer and stronger in our relationship, yet we have grown leaps and bounds.”
“We’re both doing really great and we attribute it to our time with you [Roseann]. It truly has been a growing experience for us both, and while we’re still practicing the things you taught us- we both feel heard by the other. We thank you so much for your guidance during such a rough time. I can’t speak for xx, but I feel like I have my best friend back.”
“Bre is very bubbly but also patient and good at taking care of any concerns or questions throughout the process.”
“Brittany has helped us find ways to deal with our differences, and avoid the downward spiraling of dumb bickering. We have learned ways to better communicate, relax our minds and bodies when things seem to be going badly, and stay more connected with each other.”
“I just wanted to thank you [Roseann] for the great session today. Your read on things has been remarkably accurate and we’re really happy we found you. I know we’re just beginning, but I’m incredibly encouraged by the real progress we’re already making and we’re very much looking forward to seeing you next week.”
“Lisa makes me feel very relaxed and comfortable. She gave good insight and overall it was a really positive experience. We are looking forward to continuing our work with her.”
“Elizabeth is very understanding of our situation and is giving us the insight and tools we need to have a successful solution to our problems.”
“Lisa is very kind and she can hear our concerns and guide and direct us appropriately.”
“Kaily was fantastic to work with. My wife and I both appreciated how easy she was to talk to and found her advice and techniques to be very helpful. She did a great job at relating with us that made it easier to open up with our problems.”
“Dori helped us so much. Over multiple discussions, she helped us gain insights into what the other person was truly thinking and feeling, and what we were afraid to admit, too. She also gave us a collection of tools to try when things get tough. The combination of all these things has helped us work through and past much of the tension we couldn’t get over before.”
“Josephine showed us tools for recognizing conflicts / poor communication and pursuing resolution and achieving thoughtful dialogue. She also reinforced what was good about our relationship :)”
“Linda makes us feel safe. She makes it so that we know that we are going to get through this together and come out stronger.”
“Brittany was a great help, very thoughtful, and offered great insight and advice throughout our time together. I always felt heard/comfortable and she was encouraging of us stepping outside of our comfort zone. I can’t thank Brittany enough for how kind and supportive she is!”
“My partner and I have been seeing Dr. Harold for 4-5 couples sessions so far, and he has been incredibly personable and warm from our first time meeting him at the consult. He has provided us both with a safe place where we feel encouraged to be vulnerable with one another. We absolutely love working with him, and plan to keep doing so!”
“Rachel does an amazing job facilitating constructive conversations, identifying root causes, and formulating a plan for tackling issues. My wife and I have tremendously benefited from our sessions with Rachel. Our relationship is stronger and there is more understanding between us.”
“We are getting the tools that we need to better communicate and be more considerate of one another’s moods and needs. Natalie has offered straightforward information and concrete steps. Also, the zoom meetings are far more effective than I anticipated. The technology is easy to use and it creates the right environment for this sort of thing.”
“Hunter is kind and unbiased in his work. He makes us feel comfortable and has a strong background to intelligently move us in the right direction.”
“She has provided us with reassurance and helpful techniques to use.”
“We worked through the arguments using the skills you have taught us and we are generally doing okay. A lot of the credit for that is thanks to your help. Thank you for all that you have done for us. We are very happy together and it is mostly thanks to the support you have given us.”
“I like the way that she talks with us and she makes me feel really comfortable after previous therapy experiences going poorly. And I think that she gives us good homework and tools that we can use.”
“The quiz we took separately and then reviewing our answers to learn about our similarities and differences was really helpful. Also the “I feel/I need” communication technique was great advice!”
“She’s very nice. She’s smart and she leads the sessions well. We really like Tomauro.”
“The best thing that Hunter did was hold us accountable and make sure that we were always clear and understood. If at any time we didn’t feel like we were achieving anything he was there to help guide us to more vulnerable communication.”
“She was a very good listener, and did a good job at making my partner and I both feeling heard.”
“Brittany was very insightful. She was very easy for us to talk to. We enjoyed our experience with Brittany.”
“I feel Ben is a good fit for us. We both felt comfortable talking with him.”
“She [Dr. Georgiana] is taking us through historical issues that need to be addressed before we can move forward. She tells it straight, “If things continue like this you can expect xyz…” She encourages and makes a case for decisions to be made, to take a stand and follow through.”
“Dr. Amy is very professional and helpful.”
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“Georgi has been creative in her approach and committed to helping us grow”
“Linda is an empathetic listener, an analytical counselor. She helps you live better.”
“Georgi has been great. We’ve only had a few foundational sessions so far, but the time my partner and I spend both in and out of the office has been tremendously helpful.”
“Dori is understanding and calm, and helps us understand our feelings, communicate them, celebrate all positive steps, stay positive, and feel hopeful and loving toward each other.”
“Kathleen is supportive, adaptive, and professional. After a few sessions, I feel that she has taken the time to understand us and tailor our sessions to fit our style!”
“Lisa seemed to understand our unique situation and highly capable of helping us.”
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