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Help For Your Relationship: Expert Couples Counseling

Denver Couples Therapy | Online Couples Counseling

We Help You Love Your Relationship


and Grow Together, Not Apart

Happy, long-term couples make it by growing together.

Every “rough patch” is an opportunity to expand your capacity for love. Successful relationships require us to to communicate, empathize, compromise, and show each other love and respect.

Positive, effective Denver couples therapy helps you productively use this “growth moment,” and take your relationship to the next level. Our evidence-based couples counseling helps you resolve issues, understand each other, and start enjoying each other again. Schedule a free consultation to learn more about our marriage counseling programs.

Our Approach To Denver Couples Counseling


Your relationship is too important to risk on anything but the best.

Our couples counselors have years of experience, and practice only the forms of couples therapy that have been proven by research to be effective: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method.


It can feel vulnerable to talk about your relationship.

Our couples therapists know how to make both of you feel heard, respected, and understood. We don’t “take sides” but rather help you both understand each other’s perspective, and grow in response.


The strongest, most committed couples are the ones in marriage counseling programs.

It’s because they care enough to work at it. All couples have “issues.” We help you enhance the positive, build on your strengths, and make your good relationship great.

Positive, Productive Couples Therapy Helps You:

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Strengthen Your Emotional Bond

Solid relationships are built on trust, emotional intimacy, love and respect.

Our compassionate couples counseling helps you rebuild your bond, repair your trust, and help you both feel understood and cared for.

Improve Your Communication

Successful couples can work through anything, provided they have healthy and respectful communication.

Our positive couples counseling teaches you both how to stop fighting, start understanding, and turn every “conflict” into a new opportunity for connection.

Get On The Same Page

As relationships evolve, successful couples need to get into alignment and work as a team.

Differences around housework, finances, parenting styles, priorities and expectations are all solvable problems.

Effective, expert couples counseling helps you find new solutions to old problems, and create compromise and agreement.


Intimacy & Passion

It takes intention to keep passion alive in long-term relationships.

Our experienced couples counselors can help you keep the romance alive in your relationship.

Our positive, growth-oriented approach helps you both connect with your passion, and learn how to share it with each other.


Enjoy Each Other Again

Relationships wither when we take each other for granted.

Our couples therapists are masterful at helping you move away from criticism and resentment, and towards gratitude and appreciation.

We’re here to help you both reconnect with the joyful parts of your relationship, and treasure each day with each other.

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Move Forward, Together

Our effective, positive and compassionate marriage coaching helps you strengthen your relationship, get into alignment about your hopes, dreams and values, and enjoy each other again.

Then you can move forward, confidently, into a bright new future.



Meet a Few Of Our Relationship Experts

The marriage counselors, couples therapists and premarital counselors of Growing Self have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.




Hunter Tolman

Hunter Tolman


Hunter is an exceptionally warm, compassionate couples counselor and therapist who has specialized training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy as well as family systems. He helps individuals gain self-awareness and move past self-limiting patterns, and helps couples achieve deeper levels of communication, connection, and commitment. He can help you both to understand yourselves, and each other, so that you can create new, positive ways of relating that heal your bond.



Amanda Schaeffer

Amanda Schaeffer


Amanda is a Marriage Counselor, Premarital Counselor and Family Therapist with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples and families understand each other compassionately, feel emotionally safe, and learn how to relate in positive new ways that allow them to start enjoying each other again.




Teresa Thomas

Teresa Thomas




Teresa Thomas is a marriage counselor and couples therapist with years of experience in helping couples communicate more effectively, find new solutions to old problems, repair their strong bond, rebuild trust after affairs, successfully blend families, improve their sexual intimacy, and parent joyfully together. She is a couples therapist and parenting coach with a positive, solution focused style who specializes in helping you both make positive changes to your life, as well as to your relationship.



Meagan Terry

Meagan Terry



Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. She uses effective, evidence based forms of marriage counseling including Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class.



Seth Bender

Seth Bender



Seth Bender is a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in helping couples heal their relationships, improve communication, release resentments, and achieve new levels of enjoyment and fulfillment with each other. He practices Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you strengthen your bond, as well as positive, empowering and solution focused coaching strategies to help you both take positive action in your relationship.  



Dori Bagi

Dori Bagi



Dori is a kind, empathetic couples counselor, individual therapist, and life coach who specializes in sex therapy, and helping couples create healthy emotional and sexual intimacy. Her friendly style makes it safe to talk about anything, and her solution-focused approach helps you move past the past, and into a bright new future of intimacy and connection.


Polly Drew

Polly Drew


Polly is a marriage counselor with over 25 years of experience in helping couples "come back from the brink," heal their strong bond, and enter into a positive and satisfying new chapter of life together. Her warm, competent style will put you both at ease and help you find new solutions to old problems.

What Our Clients Say

“Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.”

-Former Client

We make couples counseling easy.

We’re Affordable

Excellent couples counseling isn’t just a luxury for a priveleged few. Many of our experts offer sliding scale rates, and we can often help you use your insurance. In addition to private couples therapy, we also offer affordable relationship classes.

We’re Accessible

We have two convenient office locations, in Denver and Broomfield Colorado. We offer evening and weekend appointments. Outside Colorado? No problem: we work with people all over the world through Skype, FaceTime or Google Hangouts.

We’re Ready

The first step in getting started is to schedule your free consultation session with one of our experts. We’ll talk about your goals for couples counseling, and how we’ll help you achive them. If it feels like a good fit, we’ll move forward together.

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