Help For Your Relationship: Expert Couples Counseling

Denver Couples Therapy | Online Couples Counseling

We Help You Love Your Relationship


and Grow Together, Not Apart

Happy, long-term couples make it by growing together.

Every “rough patch” is an opportunity to expand your capacity for love. Successful relationships require us to to communicate, empathize, compromise, and show each other love and respect.

Positive, effective Denver couples therapy helps you productively use this “growth moment,” and take your relationship to the next level. Our evidence-based couples counseling helps you resolve issues, understand each other, and start enjoying each other again. Schedule a free consultation to learn more about our marriage counseling programs.

Our Approach To Denver Couples Counseling


Your relationship is too important to risk on anything but the best.

Our couples counselors have years of experience, and practice only the forms of couples therapy that have been proven by research to be effective: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method.


It can feel vulnerable to talk about your relationship.

Our couples therapists know how to make both of you feel heard, respected, and understood. We don’t “take sides” but rather help you both understand each other’s perspective, and grow in response.


The strongest, most committed couples are the ones in marriage counseling programs.

It’s because they care enough to work at it. All couples have “issues.” We help you enhance the positive, build on your strengths, and make your good relationship great.

Positive, Productive Couples Therapy Helps You:

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Strengthen Your Emotional Bond

Solid relationships are built on trust, emotional intimacy, love and respect.

Our compassionate couples counseling helps you rebuild your bond, repair your trust, and help you both feel understood and cared for.

Improve Your Communication

Successful couples can work through anything, provided they have healthy and respectful communication.

Our positive couples counseling teaches you both how to stop fighting, start understanding, and turn every “conflict” into a new opportunity for connection.

Get On The Same Page

As relationships evolve, successful couples need to get into alignment and work as a team.

Differences around housework, finances, parenting styles, priorities and expectations are all solvable problems.

Effective, expert couples counseling helps you find new solutions to old problems, and create compromise and agreement.


Intimacy & Passion

It takes intention to keep passion alive in long-term relationships.

Our experienced couples counselors can help you keep the romance alive in your relationship.

Our positive, growth-oriented approach helps you both connect with your passion, and learn how to share it with each other.


Enjoy Each Other Again

Relationships wither when we take each other for granted.

Our couples therapists are masterful at helping you move away from criticism and resentment, and towards gratitude and appreciation.

We’re here to help you both reconnect with the joyful parts of your relationship, and treasure each day with each other.

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Move Forward, Together

Our effective, positive and compassionate marriage coaching helps you strengthen your relationship, get into alignment about your hopes, dreams and values, and enjoy each other again.

Then you can move forward, confidently, into a bright new future.



Meet a Few Of Our Relationship Experts

The marriage counselors, couples therapists and premarital counselors of Growing Self have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.




Hunter Tolman

Hunter Tolman


Hunter is a warm, compassionate marriage counselor, couples therapist, and parenting coach who believes in love, and that strong marriages create strong families. He practices Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, which is an evidence-based form of marriage counseling that focuses on helping you create a strong, secure attachment built on trust and empathy.

His gentle, but effective approach can help you open up with each other, and have healing conversations that repair your bond and allow you both to consistently show each other the love and respect you both deserve. Hunter's roots are in Utah, but he is currently based in Colorado. He can serve you as a couples therapist or marriage counselor in Fort Collins, CO and Broomfield, CO, and he provides online marriage counseling & relationship coaching to couples across the US and around the world.

Meagan Terry

Meagan Terry


Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. She specializes in Denver marriage counseling, Denver premarital counseling, and online relationship coaching.

Meagan uses effective, evidence based forms of marriage counseling including Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class. Meagan is available to meet with you for marriage counseling or couples therapy in Denver, and for relationship coaching and premarital counseling online.


Lisa Jordan

Lisa Jordan


Lisa is a warm, thoughtful and experienced couples counselor, therapist and coach. She has extensive post-graduate training in evidence-based couples therapy (Gottman Method Levels 1 & 2). Her approach helps you rebuild empathy, and restore your strong foundation through healthy communication and compassionate connection. Lisa is licensed as a therapist in Chicago, Illinois but serves couples across the US and around the world as a relationship coach.

Anastacia Sams

Anastacia Sams

M.A., N.C.C., LMFT-C

I’m Anastacia Sams: a licensed therapist, life coach, and marriage counselor who is all about helping you create the very best life for yourself and for your relationships. I specialize in a type of evidence-based marriage counseling called Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, that helps you rebuild your secure, strong bond.

I’ve been told that my warm, gentle style immediately sets people at ease. Working with me, you’ll feel safe, cared for, and understood. And through that non-judgmental understanding, you will heal, grow, and — most importantly — understand yourself.”

Amy-Noelle Shih

Amy-Noelle Shih


Amy-Noelle specializes in relationship dynamics and personal development, and has over 10 years of clinical experience in helping individuals and couples grow into the fullness of their potential. She uses the Gottman Method and also draws from Ester Perel’s work, which integrates psychodynamic, attachment, and systemic theories, as well as body-oriented and mindful therapy approaches to help you both create transformational change in yourselves and in your relationship. Amy Noelle is licensed as a therapist in Houston, Texas and serves couples around the world as an affirming relationship coach.

Amanda Schaeffer

Amanda Schaeffer


Amanda is a Marriage Counselor, Premarital Counselor and Family Therapist with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples and families understand each other compassionately, feel emotionally safe, and learn how to relate in positive new ways that allow them to start enjoying each other again.




What Our Clients Say

“Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.”

-Former Client

We make couples counseling easy.

We’re Affordable

Excellent couples counseling isn’t just a luxury for a priveleged few. Many of our experts offer sliding scale rates, and we can often help you use your insurance. In addition to private couples therapy, we also offer affordable relationship classes.

We’re Accessible

We have two convenient office locations, in Denver and Broomfield Colorado. We offer evening and weekend appointments. Outside Colorado? No problem: we work with people all over the world through Skype, FaceTime or Google Hangouts.

We’re Ready

The first step in getting started is to schedule your free consultation session with one of our experts. We’ll talk about your goals for couples counseling, and how we’ll help you achive them. If it feels like a good fit, we’ll move forward together.