Marriage Counseling Questions
Online Marriage Counseling in Colorado
Online couples therapy is officially now a thing. Online therapy is being welcomed into the fold as a routine way of meeting with clients for therapy and marriage counseling. Online therapy is being discussed in the media (Online Therapy Gains Fans — NPR), it’s being researched and findings are showing that the results for clients are as good (sometimes better) than traditional face-to-face therapy (Psychotherapy Via Internet Is As Good If Not Better Than Face-To-Face Consultations). Above all else– it’s being used by eager clients (When Your Therapist is Only a Click Away).
With all the interest in online therapy, it’s only natural that people would be interested in using videoconferencing for relationship counseling too.
So is it okay to do marriage counseling online?
The answer: A qualified “Yes.”
Online marriage counseling is convenient.
Many couples want to meet for marriage counseling online through video-conferencing, using applications like Skype, FaceTime or Google Hangouts on their laptop. This is especially true for families with young children (who can nap or play in the next room during our sessions). Also, couples in long-distance relationships, or in which one person travels frequently often require being able to meet by video in order to maintain the consistency of their sessions.
Online marriage counseling is effective.
In general, marriage counseling online is absolutely appropriate for couples seeking help with normal, garden-variety relationship problems. For example, wanting to improve their communication, repairing trust in the relationship, wanting to feel more cared for and understood by each other, and seeking solve day-to-day problems around housework, parenting, finances and intimacy.
Online marriage counseling is not appropriate for “high risk” situations.
There are some marriage counseling situations that are considered more “high risk.” These include things like very toxic communication patterns (yelling and screaming at each other), when verbal, psychological or emotional abuse is present in the relationship, or circumstances when one or both partners has a potentially serious mental illness or substance abuse problem. In these situations, in-person, in-office marriage counseling session is more appropriate.
Online relationship coaching helps you find strategic solutions to solve old problems for good.
Relationship coaching is different from marriage counseling, in that it doesn’t seek to resolve long-standing emotional issues between a couple. Relationship coaching provides couples with direction and guidance about how to improve their partnership through strategic, positive action. For this reason, relationship coaching often works beautifully for couples who want to meet online and make their good relationship a great one. Relationship coaching involves structured activities, and assignments that you do in between sessions in order to help you practice what you learn in your sessions. It’s an action-oriented, positive approach that works for many couples — often in only a few sessions.
Would you like to learn more about how to meet for relationship coaching or marriage counseling online? Check out our guide to online therapy.
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is trained as a Psychologist, a Marriage and Family Therapist, and is a Board Certified Life Coach. She is the Founder of Growing Self Counseling and Life Coaching in Denver, Colorado.
Dr. Bobby is the host of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.
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The marriage counselor, couples therapists and premarital counselors of Growing Self have specialized training and years of experience in helping couples reconnect. We use only evidence based strategies that have been proven by research to help you restore your strong bond, and love your relationship again.
Teresa Thomas is a marriage counselor and couples therapist with years of experience in helping couples communicate more effectively, find new solutions to old problems, repair their strong bond, rebuild trust after affairs, successfully blend families, improve their sexual intimacy, and parent joyfully together. She is a couples therapist and parenting coach with a positive, solution focused style who specializes in helping you both make positive changes to your life, as well as to your relationship.
Meagan Terry is a relationship specialist. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over nine years of experience in helping couples reconnect, and enjoy each other again. She uses effective, evidence based forms of marriage counseling including Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy and The Gottman Method. In addition to working one-on-one with couples, she teaches our Lifetime of Love premarital and relationship class.
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Seth Bender is a marriage and family therapist with specialized training and experience in helping couples heal their relationships, improve communication, release resentments, and achieve new levels of enjoyment and fulfillment with each other. He practices Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you strengthen your bond, as well as positive, empowering and solution focused coaching strategies to help you both take positive action in your relationship.
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Dori is a kind, empathetic couples counselor, individual therapist, and life coach who specializes in sex therapy, and helping couples create healthy emotional and sexual intimacy. Her friendly style makes it safe to talk about anything, and her solution-focused approach helps you move past the past, and into a bright new future of intimacy and connection.
Brittany specializes in helping couples strengthen their bond, and heal old hurts, in order to develop a more secure and satisfying relationship. She can help you both understand yourselves, and each other, so that you can create new, positive ways of relating that heal your connection— on every level.
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Anastacia's authentic, caring approach to marriage counseling and relationship coaching helps couples find each other's "noble intentions," and re-commit to showing each other love and respect. She can help you heal old hurts, improve your communication, restore trust, and work together as a team.
Amanda is a Marriage Counselor and Relationship Coach with a warm, gentle style that will help you both feel comfortable, respected, and understood. She has a gift for helping couples understand each other compassionately, feel emotionally safe, and start enjoying each other again.
Polly is a marriage counselor with over 25 years of experience in helping couples "come back from the brink," heal their strong bond, and enter into a positive and satisfying new chapter of life together. Her warm, competent style will put you both at ease and help you find new solutions to old problems.
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