Grow Together, Not Apart
Repair Your Bond: Expert Marriage Counseling
Expert Denver Marriage Counseling: Real Help For Your Relationship
Turn Conflict Into Connection
Have you been feeling disconnected from your partner? Maybe you’ve been feeling hurt or frustrated, or like a new fight is always simmering just under the surface. Maybe you’re struggling to communicate, or feel like your trust and formerly secure connection has been damaged. If so, you’re not alone. All couples go through periods of disconnection.
These are “cross-road” moments for marriages: One path leads to a stronger, happier, and healthier relationship than ever before — and the other leads to increasing negativity, resentment and mistrust that can erode your connection.
Couples who avoid addressing problems, continue in negative, hurtful patterns, or wait too long to get help can destroy their trust in each other… and their commitment to the relationship.
Stop Fighting, and Start Understanding.
This is a huge opportunity to improve your relationship. Pain creates motivation to change. Smart couples who care about their marriages seize moments like these, and make the investment in professional support and guidance. This gets them on the “healthy path” towards deeper connection.
Good marriage counseling helps you learn about each other, solve problems, learn how to communicate and repair your faith in each other. Couples who walk through the fire together and come out the other side have a stronger, deeper connection than couples in untested relationships.
Believe it or not, you can look back on this “rough patch” as the best thing that ever happened in your marriage, if you seize this moment… and use it to grow together.
We Help Couples:
- Communicate With Each Other
- Stop Fighting, and Start Understanding
- Create Deeper Emotional Connection
- Repair Your Sexual Relationship
- Restore Trust and Security After Infidelity
- Resolve Long-standing Differences
- Parent as a Team
- Create Agreement Around Responsibilities, Money, Kids and More
- Bring Peace To a Blended Family
- Cope With Infertility, Postpartum, and Becoming Parents
- Support and Accept Each Other
- Build a Strong, Healthy Family
- Love and Respect Each Other
- Build a Life of Shared Meaning and Purpose
- Enjoy Each Other Again
Our Evidence-Based Marriage Counseling is Positive, Productive and Effective.
Thanks so much for helping us find our strong bond again. We can’t tell you how much it’s helped us.
– Former ClientPOWERFUL
The marriage counselors of Growing Self have specialized education, training and experience in marriage counseling.
We know how to help you reconnect emotionally, restore trust, improve communication, solve problems together, and create deeper levels of intimacy.
POSITIVE
Marriage Counseling with us is a positive experience. Our highly trained, professional marriage counselors know how to set you both at ease, and feel heard, valued, and understood.
Even reluctant partners often leave their consultation feeling excited, hopeful, and committed to the process.
PRODUCTIVE
We help you have productive new experiences that grow your understanding of yourselves… and each other.
You’ll leave each session with new hope, new ideas, new agreements, and a plan of action to make the specific changes that will improve your relationship.
EFFECTIVE
POWERFUL
The marriage counselors of Growing Self have specialized education, training and experience in marriage counseling.
We know how to help you reconnect emotionally, restore trust, improve communication, solve problems together, and create deeper levels of intimacy.
POSITIVE
Marriage Counseling with us is a positive experience. Our highly trained, professional marriage counselors know how to set you both at ease, and feel heard, valued, and understood.
Even reluctant partners often leave their consultation feeling excited, hopeful, and committed to the process.
PRODUCTIVE
We help you have productive new experiences that grow your understanding of yourselves… and each other.
You’ll leave each session with new hope, new ideas, new agreements, and a plan of action to make the specific changes that will improve your relationship.
EFFECTIVE
You provided us such a safe place to be honest with ourselves and with each other our fear of being vulnerable and weak were transformed into a feeling of opportunity to be heard. My husband and I are better friends, parents, lovers and companions than we have ever been.
– Former ClientsMeet a Few of Our Relationship Experts
Sonya Jensen, M.A., LMFT
Not Accepting New Clients
TRANSFORMATIONAL LIFE COACHING & COUPLES COUNSELING | Sonya is a kind, effective marriage counselor, couples therapist, premarital counselor, dating coach, life coach, and breakup counselor, who is devoted to helping you create the life and love you want.
Available In: Austin, TX • Online Video
Features: Evenings & Weekends | More Experienced
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LMFT, BCC
Not Accepting New Clients
FOR LOVE, HAPPINESS & SUCCESS | Dr. Lisa is here to help you feel good about yourself and your life, create secure and loving relationships, and do good things in the world.
Available In: Denver, CO • Online Video
Features: More Experienced
Brenda Fahn, M.A., LMFT
SPECIALIZING IN LOVE, JOY & FULFILLMENT | Brenda helps people strengthen their marriages, their families, and themselves. She can help you enjoy your relationships with your partner and children, and cultivate meaning, joy, and love in your life.
Available In: Broomfield, CO • Online Video
Features: Evenings | More Experienced | Licensed in Colorado and California
Dr. Georgiana Spradling, MFT
FOCUSED, EFFECTIVE & EXPERIENCED | Dr. Georgiana is a multilingual Marriage and Family Therapist, Emotional Intelligence Coach, and Life Coach. Whether your preferred language is English, Spanish or French her strategic results-oriented approach to relationship coaching, dating coaching, life coaching, and therapy will move you forward.
Available In: San Francisco, CA • Online Video
Features: Evenings & Weekends | More Experienced | English, Spanish & French Speaking
Rachel Harder, M.A., LPC, LMFTC
Not Accepting New Clients
SOLUTION-FOCUSED, POSITIVE, & ACTION-ORIENTED | Rachel helps you find passion and joy in yourself and your relationships. She supports you in creating meaning and happiness, and not only facing your challenges — but triumphantly overcoming them.
Available In: Denver, CO • Online Video
Features: Evenings | More Experienced
Seth Bender, M.A., LMFTC
EASY TO TALK TO, GENUINE & PRODUCTIVE | Seth is a marriage counselor, therapist, and life coach who helps people create deeper relationships, heal from difficult life experiences and increase their confidence. His warm, non-judgmental approach makes it safe to discover new things about yourself, and take positive action to change your life.
Available In: Denver, CO • Online
Features: Evenings | More Affordable
Sonya Jensen, M.A., LMFT
Not Accepting New Clients
Transformational Life Coaching & Couples Counseling
Sonya is a kind, effective marriage counselor, couples therapist, premarital counselor, dating coach, life coach, and breakup counselor, who is devoted to helping you create the life and love you want.
Available In: Austin / Georgetown, TX • Online Video
Read Sonya’s Bio | Schedule Now
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LMFT, BCC
Not Accepting New Clients
For Love, Happiness and Success
Dr. Lisa is here to help you feel good about yourself and your life, create secure and loving relationships, and do good things in the world.
Available In: Denver / Cherry Creek • Online Video
Features: More Experienced
Learn More | Schedule Now
Brenda Fahn, M.A., LMFT
Specializing in Love, Joy, and Fulfillment
“Hi, I’m Brenda. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Life Coach with almost twenty years of experience in helping my clients strengthen themselves and their marriages. I use positive and effective individual counseling, for both adults and teenagers, marriage counseling, premarital counseling, life coaching, and dating coaching. I am here to help you enjoy your relationships with your partner; recover from depression and anxiety be able to live a more fulfilling life and cultivate meaning, joy, and love in your life.”
Available In: Broomfield, CO • Online Video
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Dr. Georgiana Spradling, MFT
Focused, Effective, Experienced
Whether you are struggling with dating, a committed relationship, a separation, or breakup/divorce concerns… I will help you resolve them! For over 20 years, I’ve worked with hundreds of individuals and couples to improve their lives and relationships through Relationship Coaching, Life Coaching and Effective Therapy in English, Spanish and French.
I have a solution-oriented approach that will help you create change in your life. My practice uses evidence-based strategies to develop new and existing skills, keeping the focus on your goals in order to achieve maximum results, while saving you time and money.
Available In: San Francisco, CA • Online Video
Features: English, Spanish & French Speaking
Read Dr. Georgiana’s Bio | Schedule Now
Rachel Harder, M.A., LPC, LMFTC
Not Accepting New Clients
Solution-Focused, Positive, & Action-Oriented
SOLUTION-FOCUSED, POSITIVE, & ACTION-ORIENTED | Rachel helps you find passion and joy in yourself and your relationships. She supports you in creating meaning and happiness, and not only facing your challenges — but triumphantly overcoming them.
Available In: Denver / Cherry Creek • Online Video
Read Rachel’s Bio | Schedule Now
Seth Bender, M.A., LMFTC
Easy to Talk To, Genuine & Productive
Seth is a marriage counselor, therapist, and life coach who helps people create deeper relationships, heal from difficult life experiences and increase their confidence. His warm, non-judgmental approach makes it safe to discover new things about yourself, and take positive action to change your life.
Available In: Denver / Cherry Creek • Online
Read Seth’s Bio | Schedule Now
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We're Effective
- All our coaches have Master's Degrees or Doctorates in addition to coach training.
- We use effective, evidence based techniques that get you results
- We'll help you create actionable plans that move you forward.
We're Easy
- Free consultations
- Evening and Weekend appointments
- Convenient locations in Denver, Broomfield, and Greenwood Village (DTC), & Fort Collins Colorado as well as San Francisco, California, Georgetown and Houston Texas, and Bentonville, Arkansas.
- Meet across the US and Internationally through online video
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