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Find The Love of Your Life

Denver Dating Coach


Modern Dating is Challenging

You want to have love in your life, and a wonderful relationship with someone who you can build a strong, happy partnership with. But the actual process of finding that special person and then creating a high-quality relationship  can be challenging.

Dating triggers all your anxieties, and it can be really exhausting. It can also be discouraging. Especially if you’ve been trying for a while, and keep getting disappointed.


Dating is a “Growth Opportunity.”

The good news is that your motivation to find love can be the catalyst for important personal growth work. Dating is a unique opportunity for self improvement. We help you identify what’s NOT working for you, and give you the feedback, guidance and support you need to make positive changes in your life. Good dating coaching helps you become your “best self”, as well as attract the love you’re looking for.


Unique Insight & Experience

In June of 2014, our founder Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby was one of only nine relationship experts from around the country invited to attend the first ever Match.com “Relationship Experts Summit.” There she was given in-depth insight into the modern dating research and strategy that she passed on to all the dating coaches of Growing Self.(Listen to her podcast with Match.com’s chief scientific advisor Dr. Helen Fisher), or get Dr. Bobby’s top tips for creating an amazing online profile.


Relationship Experts

Furthermore, the dating coaches of Growing Self are also all expert marriage counselors with years of experience in working with couples. We understand what a happy, healthy relationship requires. With us you don’t just “get dates.” You learn how to establish healthy relationships (and stay away from bad ones) from the very beginning.

Expert Dating Coaching Helps You:



The first step in effective dating coaching is to identify the unhelpful old patterns or core beliefs that may be getting in your way. We help you attract love by becoming your best self.


We help you get clarity about what a happy, healthy relationship means to you. The foundation of your new love will be built on your values, your priorities, and your life dreams and goals.


In today’s dating reality, you need a strategy. We help you figure out how and where to meet your ideal partner, plus all the “Do’s and Don’ts” of successful dating.


These days, people are looking for love online. We can help you craft the perfect profile that communicates the real you, from your personal statement to your portrait photo.


If you’re a motivated dater, you’re going to meet lots of people. We teach you how to tell a “keeper” from a “toss-back” quickly — saving you time and heartbreak.


Meeting people is one thing, but creating a happy, lasting relationship is another. We teach you how to establish a healthy relationship that grows into something beautiful.

Just knowing that you were going to ask me about my homework made me do it. I did things with you that I couldn’t do on my own.

– Former Client

The Rules of the Dating Game Have Changed.

Learn How to Attract the Love You're Looking For.

Ready To Take Action, and "Find The One?"

We'll show you exactly how to be successful with modern dating. Our strategic, info-packed online dating coaching program is an affordable, effective alternative to private dating coaching.

Online Dating Can Be Overwhelming

But it doesn't have to be. In fact, with the right support, finding your perfect match through online dating can be effortless. To support you on your quest for true love, Growing Self now offers administrative support for online dating.

Dating Coaching Dating Admin

Meet Tammy.

Tammy Gaiter is an organizational genius. She can help you set up your online dating profiles and keep them up-to-date, she can sort through the ocean of profiles to help you find your ideal matches, and she can help you manage correspondence from all the potential suitors competing for your attention.

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We're Effective

  • All our coaches have Master's Degrees or Doctorates in addition to coach training.
  • We use effective, evidence based techniques that get you results
  • We'll help you create actionable plans that move you forward.


We're Easy

  • Free consultations
  • Evening and Weekend appointments
  • Convenient locations in Denver, Broomfield, and Greenwood Village (DTC) Colorado as well as San Fransico, California and Sarosota, Flordia.
  • Meet across the US and Internationally through online video


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From Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby's Blog and Podcast

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