Find The The Love of Your Life

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You Deserve a Life Full of Love

Authentic connection, built on love, respect, friendship, and fun, is one of the cornerstones of a happy, fulfilling life. But, as you well know if you've been on the dating scene for any length of time, the actual process of finding that special person and then creating a high-quality relationship can be challenging.

The modern dating scene can be difficult to navigate, and fraught with obstacles. Should you be looking for love through online dating sites, or through in-person opportunities? When you meet someone promising, how do you cultivate chemistry and connection and turn first dates into seconds? How do you attract the type of person you're looking for, (and stop attracting the wrong types of people?) How do you handle the “ghosts,” “zombies,” and “breadcrumbers” you might find along the way?

But most importantly, how do you nurture and grow the type of healthy, long-term connection that you're longing for, without wasting months or years of your life going down disappointing dead ends?

Good news: You don't have to figure all of these things out on your own. With a professional dating coach by your side, you can navigate all of these potential pitfalls with confidence and style.

Here's the Secret: Dating is a “Growth Opportunity.”

At Growing Self, our approach to dating coaching is a little different. We don't just help you pull together your online dating profile, teach you how to “converse charismatically,” increase your attractor-factors, and spot relationship warning signs quickly so that you can get better results. Though we do all that and more, we take things a little deeper because our dating coaches are also relationship experts with training and experience as couples counselors and therapists.

We believe that you have an amazing opportunity to learn about yourself, and evolve as a person on your quest for true love. We'll help you identify your old patterns in relationships and any inner obstacles that may be getting in your way, so that you can be your very best self in a healthy new relationship — and get the love, respect and commitment that you deserve.

Unique Insight & Experience

In June of 2014, our founder Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby was one of only nine relationship experts from around the country invited to attend the first ever “Relationship Experts Summit.” There she was given in-depth insight into the modern dating research and strategy that she passed on to all the dating coaches of Growing Self. (Listen to her podcast with's chief scientific advisor Dr. Helen Fisher), or get Dr. Bobby's top tips for creating an amazing online profile.

We stay on top of the latest trends in dating, including research into how the dating game is evolving, best practices in current online dating platforms, and the strategies that will help you succeed in love.

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Answers to Your Dating Coaching Questions

How Does Dating Coaching Work?

Wondering how, exactly, a professional online dating coach can help you get different results? It starts with a journey of self-discovery, where you learn more about yourself and the previously unknown obstacles that have been getting in the way of your success. Armed with that knowledge, you can then work with your coach to try new, more effective strategies.

How Much Does a Dating Coach Cost?

If you're considering dating coaching, an understandable question is how much dating coaching costs. First, it's helpful to understand the true value that expert dating coaching can bring to your life. At Growing Self, expert dating coaching is also as affordable as it is meaningful and effective. Learn more about our rates for dating coaching (and whether you can use your insurance!)

Do I Really Need a Dating Coach?

Wondering why you should enlist the support of a personal dating coach, or keep working at things on your own? Here are a few thought provoking questions to help you determine if you could benefit from working with a professional dating coach, or if you're already heading in the right direction.

What to Expect in Your Free Dating Coaching Consultation

If you've never done any type of coaching before, you might be a little nervous about what to expect in your very first meeting. Learn more about what types of questions your dating coach will ask, and how your consultation meeting will unfold...

Meet Some Of Our Dating Coaches

Markie Keelan, M.A., LPCC, CSPC

Markie Keelan, M.A., LPCC, CSPC

Dynamic Life, Career & Dating Coach

Markie is a Master's level coach with a positive, compassionate attitude towards personal growth. She has years of experience in helping people create real and lasting change in their lives and performing at the highest level of their potential. Listen to Markie's great dating advice on the "New Rules For Dating" podcast with Dr. Helen Fisher.

Jessica Small, M.A., LMFT

Jessica Small, M.A., LMFT

Dating and Relationship Coach



Jessica is a dating coach, as well as a licensed marriage and family therapist, with many years of experience in helping people create happy, healthy, and authentic relationships. She has extensive experience in helping people create healthy relationships, and can help you get self-awareness, clarity, confidence, and empowerment to connect with your soul-mate.



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